i was talkin to my bf and i asked him question like wut wud u do if ur parents won let u marry me? and he took it wrong way
he is like how cud u tell me to pic my mom n dad or u, but acutually i was never sayin that
he is mad AT me and Broke up and he said we can be frnds. id ont get it. why he is not tryin to understand that i meant to get an basic answer and i never asked him to pick me or his parents.. wut shud i do.. ignore him for a week and let him come bac to me or go after him tellin him i m sry.. wut shud i do??
2006-09-17 16:14:39 · 10 answers · asked by sexiincute108 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just sit down and tell him that thats not what you were trying to say. Just tell him that you were just wondering that if they didnt let him marry you, would he wait until he was 18 and make his own decisions, or would he still be with you, until then or what. Just explain to him that you would never make him pick between him and his parents, just like you wouldnt want him to do that to you! Hope this short answer helps!!!!
2006-09-17 16:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's not interested in your explanations, then he's looking for an excuse to get out of his relationship with you! I am sorry to be this frank with you, but you have no choice. Just accept the truth and go on with your life.
Use this as a lesson for your future relationship. To avoid this in future, do not jump into a relationship too quickly before you get to know your friends better. Be friends first without committing yourself.
2006-09-17 23:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did ask him who he would pick. You asked him what he would do if his parents wouldn't let him marry you. The only things he could do is go against his parents or leave you. You need to give him some time to cool off.
2006-09-17 23:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a colossal misunderstanding between u & your bf.
Try to clarify things with him in about a week.
2006-09-17 23:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that it was a misunderstanding and that it wasn't ment as a choice, and the hypothetical questions are bad news, and you should probabnlo stay away from them
2006-09-17 23:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by crashboyz3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems like he was just trying to get any excuse he could to get out of the relationship. did you talk about it? did he just blow up and leave? you might try talking to him, but he might have just been looking for an excuse to flee.
2006-09-17 23:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cayce A 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Explain what you really meant ..in a letter....If he doesn't talk to you after that....Look elsewhere....You were honest and he is Childish....Tell him GROW UP .......and leave him standing all alone.
2006-09-17 23:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will get over it. Give it some time. he will come back or you will find someone else.
2006-09-17 23:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like you are both too young to even think about marriage and you probably scared him..........I would let him be and see what happens........
2006-09-17 23:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him hw sorry u r...if he really love you...u'll get him back...but if he dont...just forget him and go on with your life...remember...life goes on...no matter what...
2006-09-17 23:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by fishcake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋