i asked my bf if ur parents wont let u marry me. wut wud u do
he tells me i luv my parents and theymean everythin to me. if they tell me not to marry you then i wont.
he said. if any gal wud keep me away frm my parents i ma leave her straight away
but i dont get it. then why is he havin relationship with me and givingin me hopes that he will marry me?
i dont get it?
wut shud i do
2006-09-17 16:03:50 · 10 answers · asked by sexiincute108 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't love you that much. Move on.
2006-09-17 16:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very important and valid question especially to those with specific cultures and traditions and self/family pride!
Since he gave you a solid answer on your 'if' question...it's time for you to either meet the parents and/or begin asking him more specific questions about how he thinks you will fit in to the cultural/traditional guidelines of marriage to him. If he tells you there is hope based on his love for you but little hope of his parents agreeing to allow his love over their traditions or choice. Hey, why spin your wheels in this relationship?
Bottom line: He's definitely not in a relationship for love. His is 'conditional' and valid but not very romantic. :(
2006-09-17 23:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this the way he spoke to u?? "do u have some self respect?" if he has to do everything from his parents's wish then i hope he has taken their permission to have this relationship with u ! if he has not then tell him that since he is so much dedicated to his parents,he shd not have this relationship if they dont wish to and whenever he comes to c u next time,he shd come with a consent letter from his parents or u r breaking up as there r a lot of guys who r not hypocrites.
2006-09-18 00:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a hypothetical question and he gave you an answer. What are you worried about? At the moment, the situation doesn't even exist.
2006-09-17 23:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he now that his parents are going to do what is best for him so if a girl is going to come between him and his parents he is not going to marry thembut if he is a good guy he wouldgive up your hopes and he prob wouldnt date a girl his parents wouldnt let him marrt im not for sure but i think that ,ight be what is happening so dont worry he wouldnt give up your hope if he really loves you
2006-09-17 23:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by dumb_blonde1209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are blowing things out of proportion. You asked him a hypothetical question. He didn't actually say he wouldn't marry u did he?
2006-09-17 23:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from your point of view, its your question, it never happen, no parents on earth would stop their child from looking for happiness , you just think too much. if it really happen then you should leave him cz he care his family more than u which mean family 1st and you 2nd .
2006-09-17 23:08:51 · answer #7 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he really love his family more than you!! Ask him this question, who do you love more your parent or me? (make sure he answer it honestly)
2006-09-17 23:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Hikanuroshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg drama frickin drama thnx for the to points
2006-09-17 23:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥livin_life_and_lovin_it♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked him IF his parents said that. they haven't yet, have they?
2006-09-17 23:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by neocollie75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋