my fiance has apretty low sex drive hes 37 and he can be happy doing it 1 or 2x aweek and i love to do it everyother night,im only 32,why do i like it more than him???
2006-09-17 15:47:58 · 17 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you expect this to change or get better after you marry him?
2006-09-17 15:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I've heard that a woman's sexual peak is at 40. Well, once a week is pretty low but, I think twice is pretty normal. I wouldn't say he has a low sex drive for that. Maybe he has more on his mind than you do. Maybe you want it more because he is a great lover. Maybe he doesn't want it more because you leave a bit to be desired in your lovemaking techniques. I'm not saying this is so. There are many possibilities here. Your guess is as good as mine. Problems, problems, huh?
2006-09-17 22:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women almost always peak later than men do. He's probably dealing with a waning drive at this point. If your appetites aren't synchronized, you'll need to find a way to self-satisfy. Maybe if you take care of it while he's in the room, it will inspire him a bit. Good luck!
2006-09-17 22:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget that males sex peek is earlier than females. However my man is 34 I am 33 and we have sex every night. As he says we need to get in all in now before age really hits in.
2006-09-17 22:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by littlevae73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to do more experimenting to keep the sex more enjoyable, some people get bored with sex like its just repition with the same old thing every time.
2006-09-17 22:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Beavis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are just that way but try to eight er make it fun and inserting by dressing up or using toys and lotions if that don't work get Viagra.Good luck and try to figure this out before you two get married.
2006-09-17 22:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I know this is not recommended but I take him out and get him drunk.(not to drunk or he wont perform) It almost always works and we have a great time. And when we don't feel like drinking I wait till he is leaves and take care of myself. Good luck!
2006-09-17 22:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kaitlin S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I hear women's sex drive go up with age and men's go down. So maybe if you introduce some new things into your sex life it can light a fire up under him.
2006-09-17 22:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Almond_Joy82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you like it more than him. Your question should be, why do you want to do it more than him?
Have you talked to him about your feelings...maybe if he knew you wanted to have sex more than what you guys are doing, then maybe you two can compromise.
Instead of having sex as much as you want, try other forms of intimacy that allows you to feel good (i.e. oral sex, using toys, cuddling, kissing, foot rubs, massages, etc.)
2006-09-17 22:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by MahoganyPearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy should wake up and smell the coffe, Damm what I would do for a woman that wanted to get laid every night!!
2006-09-17 22:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be for a number of reasons.
He maybe under stress in some area of his life.
Have you tried talking to him about his lack of interest?
Has he always been this way?
2006-09-17 22:50:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋