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my fiance tells over and over again how much better i am then all the other girls h has been with

2006-09-17 15:42:03 · 25 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Probably not. Just deal with it. It's not that important.

2006-09-17 15:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 7 · 1 0

that's hard to say. i have been with someone who i had told was the best, which at the time was true. and then again and again, it seems as though they kept getting better and better. i have been with my fair share of women and now that im married i would say that she is the best and i wouldn't be lying in saying this either. the best thing is, she keeps getting better and better...
so no, he could be telling you the truth, don't read too far into it. take it for what it's worth and enjoy it. if he says your good now, you'll only get better with age and practice.


and as for those who disagree with his admitting others he's been with. there is nothing wrong with comparing or his " object comparison " they are adults and both realize the past is the past. it is good that they have the ability to communicate so well together and not get jealous or argue and fight. why is honesty so wrong ?

2006-09-17 15:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0 0

The best girlfriend? The best Sex? What exactly is he talking about?

So why does he keep telling you that over and over again anyway? Are you complaining all the time and so he has to reassure you?

I mean after all, if he was constantly thinking out loud about how great you are and he couldn't think of anything else, you would probably think he was obsessed with you. But, since you are here asking and second guessing his response, then it leads me to believe that he is just saying what you want to hear. Go with your gut instinct.

2006-09-17 16:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0 0

Either:
He's telling you the truth.
OR
He loves you SO much that he tells a "little white lie" to make his precious feel that she's the most special, wonderful person in the world.

Either way, looks like you're a big winner.

2006-09-17 15:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2006-09-17 15:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All the other girls he has been with? You put up with this "object comparison"?
He sounds sociopathic, to me.
You better have a word with some of his ex's! He probably told them the same thing!

2006-09-17 15:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0 1

Why is it that you women never believe when you got a good thing.
I tell my wife that all the time and she never believes me.
I also tell her she is the most beautiful woman I have ever known and she doesn't believe that either.
What gives?
UUUUUGH You women are impossible.

2006-09-17 15:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1 0

Hopefully he's telling the truth. Even if he isn't, at least you are still together. Good luck in your relationship.

2006-09-17 15:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 5 · 1 0

First of all you should not be having sex with him and second why is he comparing you to other women he has had sex with? Did you ever hear of STDS? That means sexually transmitted diseases. Sounds like he is a prime suspect for a carrier of vd.

2006-09-17 15:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0 2

guys say that to girls that they want to keep so thats good news for you. you may not be the best but that doesnt really matter

2006-09-17 15:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by hobodude 1 · 1 0

Probally not, however if he told you he has had better, then I highly doubt you would be calling him you fiance

2006-09-17 15:45:30 · answer #11 · answered by littlevae73 2 · 1 0

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