sometimes I'm in a weird mood and would do certian things with my boyfriend that I normally wouldn't do (nothing bad or anything... just like making out). and I'll kind of regret it afterwards cause it's not something I really want to be doing. how can I keep this from happening without feeling hypocritical, or making him feel like he's done something wrong?
2006-09-17 15:40:29 · 3 answers · asked by rainbowbubbleseh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think first of all, you need to really make up your mind about what you should and should not be doing. If you know something is wrong then don't do it! And don't use excuses like 'i'm in a weird mood'.
If you know something is wrong but still enjoy doing it, then embrace your true inner evil self and go all out and live life!
I mean, if you knew yourself really well then you would never need to be or feel like a hypocrite.
So, decide right now. Think about the kind of person you are and what you want to be.
2006-09-17 15:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you're talking about. You must have wanted to do whatever it was at the time. So, don't feel guilty and don't try to make him feel guilty. I don't know how old you are but, if you are very young, or even if you are not, make sure to take precautions. Unwanted pregnancies ruin lives. And diseases can kill. Now, after scaring you to death, I say love him if you want. Just be careful. Lose the guilt.
2006-09-17 22:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
over all else you must be true to yourself first, so why not express your concerns to him. If he truly wants to be with you he will understand
2006-09-17 22:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Grim_Sim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋