I am so scared to tell a guy i lke him. How can u get over it?

Question

im i love but....
I CANT TELL HIM
he says all the time ur my bud but i want to be more than that! wut should i do???

Answer 1

Just tell him! This might help, don't just skim it, read it! I hope it helps!

>> >7th grade
>> >
>> >I stared at the boy next to me.
>> >
>> >He was
>> >
>> >my so called "best friend".
>> >
>> >I
>> >
>> >stared
>> >
>> >at him
>> >
>> >long, silky hair,
>> >
>> >and wished he was
>> >
>> >mine.
>> >
>> >But he didnt notice me like that, I
>> >
>> >knew it.
>> >
>> >After class he
>> >
>> >walked up to me and asked
>> >
>> >me for the notes he had missed the day
>> >
>> >before and
>> >
>> >handed them to
>> >
>> >him. He said "thanks"
>> >
>> >and gave me a kiss on
>> >
>> >the cheek. I wanna
>> >
>> >tell him, I
>> >
>> >want him to
>> >
>> >know that I don`t
>> >
>> >wanna Be just friends, I love him but I`m
>> >
>> >just too shy,
>> >
>> >and I don`t know
>> >
>> >why...
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >11th Grade
>> >
>> >The phone rang. on
>> >
>> >the other end
>> >
>> >it was
>> >
>> >him. He was
>> >
>> >in tears,
>> >
>> >mumbling on
>> >
>> >and on
>> >
>> >about how his love had broke his heart.
>> >
>> >He asked
>> >
>> >me to come over
>> >
>> >because he didn't want to be alone, so I
>> >
>> >did. As I sat
>> >
>> >next to him on
>> >
>> >the sofa, I stared at
>> >
>> >his soft eyes, wishing
>> >
>> >he was mine.
>> >
>> >after 2
>> >
>> >hours,
>> >
>> >a drew barrymore movie,
>> >
>> >& 3 bags of
>> >
>> >chips, he decided to go
>> >
>> >to sleep. He
>> >
>> >looked
>> >
>> >at me,
>> >
>> >said "thanks" and
>> >
>> >gave me a kiss on the
>> >
>> >cheek. I wanna tell him,
>> >
>> >I want him to
>> >
>> >know
>> >
>> >that I don`t
>> >
>> >wanna be just
>> >
>> >friends, I love him but
>> >
>> >I'm just too shy, and i don't know why
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >Senior Year
>> >
>> >The day before prom he walked to my
>> >
>> >locker. "My date is Sick"
>> >
>> >he said; she`s not qonna
>> >
>> >go. well I didnt
>> >
>> >have a dAte and
>> >
>> >in 7th qrade we
>> >
>> >made a promise that if
>> >
>> >neither of us had dates we would go
>> >
>> >together
>> >
>> >just as "best
>> >
>> >friends". So
>> >
>> >we did.
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >Prom niqht
>> >
>> >After everything was over I was standing
>> >
>> >at his
>> >
>> >front
>> >
>> >door step. I stared
>> >
>> >at him, He smiled at me
>> >
>> >I want him
>> >
>> >to be mine,
>> >
>> >but he
>> >
>> >doesn`t
>> >
>> >think of me like that
>> >
>> >and I know it.
>> >
>> >then he said "I Had the
>> >
>> >best time,
>> >
>> >thanks!" and gave me a kiss
>> >
>> >on the cheek. I wanna
>> >
>> >tell him,
>> >
>> >I want him to know that I don`t
>> >
>> >want to be just
>> >
>> >friends, I love him
>> >
>> >but I`m just too shy,
>> >
>> >and I
>> >
>> >don`t kNow why
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >Graduation Day
>> >
>> >a
>> >
>> >day passed, then a week, then a month.
>> >
>> >before I could blink, it
>> >
>> >was graduation day. I watched as his
>> >
>> >perfect
>> >
>> >body
>> >
>> >floated like an anqel
>> >
>> >up on staqe to qet his
>> >
>> >diploma. I wanted him to be mine, but he
>> >
>> >didnt notice
>> >
>> >me like that, and I knew
>> >
>> >it. Before everyone
>> >
>> >went home, he came to me in her smock
>> >
>> >and
>> >
>> >hat, and
>> >
>> >cried as I hugged him.
>> >
>> >then he lifted
>> >
>> >his
>> >
>> >head from my shoulder and said, you`re
>> >
>> >my
>> >
>> >best friend,
>> >
>> >thanks!" and gave
>> >
>> >me a kiss on the Cheek.
>> >
>> >I wanna tell him, I want him to know that
>> >
>> >I
>> >
>> >don`t wanna
>> >
>> >be just friends, I
>> >
>> >love him but I`m just
>> >
>> >too shy, and I don`t know why
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >A Few Years Later
>> >
>> >now I sit in the pews of the church. that
>> >
>> >boy is gettinq married
>> >
>> >now. I watched him say "i do" and drive
>> >
>> >off
>> >
>> >to his new
>> >
>> >life, married to another woman.
>> >
>> >I wanted him
>> >
>> >to be mine, but he didn`t see me like
>> >
>> >that
>> >
>> >and I knew
>> >
>> >it. But before he
>> >
>> >Drove away, he came to
>> >
>> >me and said you came!" He said. "thanks!"
>> >
>> >and kissed me
>> >
>> >on the cheek. I
>> >
>> >wanna tell him, I want
>> >
>> >him to
>> >
>> >know that i dont wanna be just
>> >
>> >friends, I love
>> >
>> >him but I`m just too
>> >
>> >shy, and i don`t
>> >
>> >know why }]|
>> >
>> >
>> >
>> >Years
>> >
>> >passed,
>> >
>> >I looked
>> >
>> >down at the coffin
>> >
>> >of a boy who used to
>> >
>> >be my "best friend". at the service they
>> >
>> >read a diary
>> >
>> >entry he had wrote in
>> >
>> >his high school years.
>> >
>> >This is what it
>> >
>> >read: I stare at her wishing
>> >
>> >she was
>> >
>> >mine, but she doesn`t notice
>> >
>> >me like that, and I
>> >
>> >know it. i wanna tell her, i want her to
>> >
>> >know
>> >
>> >that I
>> >
>> >don`t wanna be just friends,
>> >
>> >I love her but I'm
>> >
>> >just too shy, and I don`t know why. I wish
>> >
>> >she
>> >
>> >would tell
>> >
>> >me she loved me...I wish I
>> >
>> >did too. I
>> >
>> >thought to myself, and I cried

Answer 2

You can either say something in a joking way or just flat out tell him or see how he feels about you. See if your friends have heard anything and I would do it alone with him. Its scary for everyone but if you don't say anything and he doesn't(maybe he feels the same way you do and is scared to tell you)either then it might be too late by the time you do. Good luck

Answer 3

you should just grow some balls and tell him. i mean, whats the worst thing that can happen? he will say no, but if hes really your friend he will understand. maybe he will even like you back - guys send mixed signals all the time. Just tell him, and see what happens, maybe he feels the exact same way as you. tell him, or your gonna regret you didnt speak up.

Answer 4

Ask him jokingly if you can be more than a bud to him, like a full bloom flower maybe.

Answer 5

since you know him so well tell him how you feel. Usually men go after women but you can try since there is familiarity. good luck

Answer 6

Don't be shy come right out and tell him you like him find out how he feels about you.

Answer 7

Are u afraid of? Just try it, then let's see what happen ; ) I you never try you'll always will be asking yourself how could it be if you were tried it?

Answer 8

GET OVER YOUR FEAR OR SHYNESS AND JUST GO FOR IT LIFE IS SHORT THE MORE TIME U WASTE NOT TELLING HIM THATS ANOTHER DAY GONE BY, SO JUST DO IT .

Answer 9

send flowers

Answer 10

let him knowww!