I've had an ongoing sexual relationship with this guy for over a year. We had a great relationship, good friends & good lovers. But just recently he had to move back home for a job. We're both settling down with our careers, he's 32 I'm 25, so I think it's best right now to take a break anyway to get everything in priority. He wants to keep in touch, which I don't know how often I should keep in contact. I believe we both have mutual feelings but since he moved away, I'm not sure how things will turn out. Is it best to take my time with the relationship and let him take the next step? I miss him, and I'm sure he misses me, and I believe that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Only time will tell? Has anyone else had this happen? What's the best approach?
2006-09-17 15:30:50 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well like I said, he still wants to keep in contact, but he had to move back home to be with his family and for his job. He actually told me this awhile back, but he wasn't sure at the time.
2006-09-17 15:59:02 · update #1
time.
2006-09-17 15:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asserting so long and the 1st month or so is the toughest. What enables is that with a super circulate you've gotten lots settling in and adjusting happening to distract you. i assume that the two enables and makes it worse in a approach because of the fact you've gotten some stress and pass over the convenience of familiarity at situations. I additionally stumbled on it soaking up and exciting to study a clean place and discover new activities and niches. today we are so fortunate with technologies. i'm online with my sisters continuously and use Skype to talk to them lots. we've exciting making plans visits and the failings to do and notice while i'm there and that they arrive right here. one among my sisters is having a infant although and that i do wish i need to be greater there for her so there is mostly a down facet to boot. you will discover procedures although to stay in touch if the relationships are there and important to you and you will strengthen new pals i understand because of the fact you're a vivacious, captivating, and outgoing guy or woman from what I extremely have seen of you right here. stable luck!
2016-10-15 02:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he moved away without you, it is safe to assume - he is not that into you. Keep lookin darlin, until you find the him that is ready to ask you to come with and do whatever he has to to make it so you can move with him. If a job is more important than being with you, he is not your man.
2006-09-17 15:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sambhavi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are the booty caller, more than likely you can hang this up as experience in sex.
my neighbor has a "friend" that he is with but he says the moment she moves away, he will get another one.
girl, if you need sex, try settling down. they say married people have more sex than single people. single people have to work for sex, married people have it atleast once a month with a "im ready honey"
jmho
2006-09-17 15:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Madonna1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have had this happen. Just go with the flow. Stay in the moment, making decisions as you go.
2006-09-17 15:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very rare occurrence. I wouldn't count on it.
2006-09-17 15:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does that job away from you his only option?
i guess somebody who is in love can make it better.
2006-09-17 15:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by pilar_roman2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋