I was w/the same guy for 5 years and he didn't like to cuddle unless he was trying to get laid. Do most guys not like to cuddle or do most like it? I would be so sad bc he didn't want to cuddle w/me. I'm just curious. I've always wondered that.
2006-09-17 15:26:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was a jerk anyway!!!
2006-09-17 15:32:02 · update #1
I'm male and enjoy cuddling and If I'm with my wife I have to be touching her
2006-09-17 15:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are asking the right question. Perhaps if you asked why guys don't like to cuddle unless they want to get laid, is easier. My answer? I love cuddling and I love getting laid and everythng in between. I lderive absolute pleasure from providing pleaure to a female. If it wasn't for females, I would have absolutely no reason to be on this earth. Bottom line is that I am an evolved male. I get pleasure from the same things you do, foreplay being a wonderful thing. The brain is the biggest sex organ we have, but most don't know it or use it; More guys than girls, especially. The younger , the less evolved they are.
2006-09-17 15:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by lovefbutts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe guys like to cuddle. I would not give a guy the time of day who just wanted to get laid and that was it. He needs to think about your needs and what makes you happy. How hard is it to cuddle? I believe you need to keep looking and make sure your next relationship your guy knows what you like.
2006-09-17 15:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by crystalite13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there r some that do.....unfortunately god or nature made a guys first impulse to treat afection from a female as a sign of sexual desire....his body just respondes to the warmth, scent and sensation of the females touch. His impulses r all geared toward that....sometimes after those impulses r satisfied, a guy will be more open toward cuddling, but for sure it's going to start building up all over again, especially in younger guys...older guys tend to be more open to cuddling, cause they have been there & done that enough to feel like it's not going to disapear if they close their eyes.
2006-09-17 15:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by BabyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the same way and I don't get it.
Sometimes I just want a cuddle, like when I have had a bad day. Somedays I just need a hug.
Now I don't ask for either unless I really want to have sex, too. Most times, I don't, I just want the hug or the snuggle for comfort after a bad day.
2006-09-17 15:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself for marriage. These men are just using you, and eventually they will find someone else when they get tired of you, and want something new, they always do. Have respect for your body, cherish it, protect it, don`t just give it away like it`s candy or something. Do you know there are 25 different types of diseases you can catch. Some can kill you, and some can make it so you can never have children, do you really want to risk that? It`s not worth it. Be smart. Give your life to the Lord Jesus Christ, he made you. If you keep doing what your doing you`ll end up paying a price for it sooner or later, you can`t do those thing`s that God says not to, and get away with it. Eventually it will turn around to bite you. This is good advice, I hope you take it. The decision is ultimately yours. I wish you the best. God Bless
2006-09-17 15:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by soulrenewer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to cuddle just because you are cuddling doesn't mean you want to get laid. If you communicated more he would that doesn't always mean sex.
2006-09-17 15:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by ghostdog506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being that I was often the "safe guy" I couldn't get laid as often as I wanted to. So cuddling was better than nothing.
2006-09-17 15:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a known fact that guys would rather go to the store and buy a woman tampons than cuddle.
2006-09-17 15:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about other guys but I love to cuddle & i'm not even the soft kinda guy but not all guys are the same mabe you should ask him
2006-09-17 15:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by D.J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋