The nice guy calls you up and asks you out. He flirts with you and talks to you when he sees you. He's not afraid of you saying no or otherwise being rejected. He doesn't let other people walk all over him. He stands up for what he believes in, and takes the steps to make it happen.
On the other hand, "bad boys" are weak and insecure. They overcompensate by being loud, vulgar, and attention-seeking. Women love these men, and falsely believe that they are "confident".
Why are women in such denial about this?
2006-09-17 15:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i saw the results of some polls and studies done a while back about women and what kind of men they want. i was totally blown away at how many women said that they only wanted the bad boy type... then those same women are all suprised and upset when their bad boys are... well... bad....
DUH! what kind of logic leads women to make decisions like that? i don't understand. apparently men are the smarter sex afterall.. ;)
2006-09-17 15:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Roger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women don't want strong men, they want brute men who can protect them. If they see their boyfriend get beat up they may stand up for him but deep down they lose respect and thus compassion for him. Women implicity want weak men, there is no question about this. A weak man is good for controlling. Women need to be treated as queens, and a strong man would want to be king, not her squire or sire. She wants a squire boy.
So, you are absolutely right about the loud and vulgar attention-seekers. It is the overbearing need to get laid that make some men, so weakened by the desire, act out in embarassing ways. Women do want weak men.
2006-09-17 15:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you really don't understand ladies a lot and the difference between attraction for fun vs. settling down long term with a husband, and yes there is a big difference (samw with guys). Ladies like to feel adventerous and at times live vicariously through the man they are with and this is edgy to them and fun but when it comes to husband material they know this type of guy won't be there for them, can't always be trusted and really isn't what they want. you need to understand ladies more and what makes them tick. read the book women are from venus and men are from mars and you may understand some, actually not sure you will, I don't give you much hope.
2006-09-17 15:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Brent J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow. i can't believe a guy asked this kind of question!!
yes, you are right, i notice women are like that. it is just like how a lot of guys out there like bad women or byotchy women. people are attracted to others who have control of certian things or people, and do and show it in a nasty, yet sexy way.
2006-09-17 15:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls just really don't know what they're looking for, or how to really love for that matter, so those who are like this tend to go for the guy who'll tell them what to do, because they really don't. Don't hate, it's just a theory. :-)
2006-09-17 15:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by T.J. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are stupid.
But they are kind of like us.
We should be content with the plain accountant, that is a little dumpy...but instead we want the stripper that barely finished high school.
2006-09-17 15:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are so used to being abused and mistreated that they expect it. When they do not get that kind of treatment they tend to think that something is wrong.
2006-09-17 15:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Joe K 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't deny this at all. I'm dating a "nice guy" right now. I've done the bad boy thing, it gets old real fast.
2006-09-17 15:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋