my daughter has been dateing a 17 year old and i found out they were having sex what do i do
2006-09-17 15:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by bmx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
educate her on sex. the types of s.t.ds you can get, aids, herpes, H.I.V, safe sex so using protection, types of protection. and last but not least, tell her that she should wait to have sex b/c she is too young.
2006-09-17 15:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make sure she knows about condoms and sti's. Take her to a doctor to get a sti test, pap smear and put on hormonal birth control. 14 isn't too young to be feeling sexual. Do you remember when you 14? Fighting with her isn't going to make her stop having sex. She might feel like she wants to rebel and start having more sex and possibly irresponsible sex or even get pregnant on purpose so she has a baby to love her when mommy rejected her. It happens all the time. Love your daughter and accept her choices and make sure she knows how to stay safe!
2006-09-17 15:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIRTH CONTROL- THE SHOT SO U KNOW SHE HAS IT. 14 shouldnt be having sex anyways..why do all these young girls have sex and want to become a mom at such a young age? i got pregnant at 18 it is so hard to be a mom. they just dont know what they are in for huh? im 21 now and i have a 3 yr old son and im 16 weeks pregnant.......if i could talk to any teen i would tell them they are not ready for a baby........life is done when u have to be responsible for another life for 18 years....no parties.need babysitters.......well i love my son i wouldnt give him for the world...i just wish they would wake up and notice being a mom is the Hardest Job in the world
2006-09-17 15:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore whatever your initial instinct tells you. You cannot talk her out of it. Discouraging her behavior will only make matters worse. Level with her on an intellectual basis. Leave your feelings and emotions out of it. I second the notion of encouraging safe sex. As a friend (not as a judging parent!) learn more about him by talking to her. Then evaluate (NOT out loud) if he can be a threat to your daughters physical/mental health. Remember, you stand to make this situation far worse than you can imagine. Think through every word you say to her. DO NOT compromise her trust in you.
2006-09-17 15:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take phone, tv, video games, and all other electronics away from her!!! Also make her come straight home from school and make sure that the school knows what is going on so that they can keep an eye on her.... Also talk to her about WHY you are doing this. I would be honest and tell her that all young women goes thru this and that there are many many reasons why she needs to wait until she is mature enough to have sex! Good Luck!
2006-09-17 15:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Ranchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report the 17 year old pervert to the Old Bill. I don't know what you yanks do, but us English would have kicked the f*cking sh*t out of the little pervert ba*tard. He obviously can't get a girl his own age.
2006-09-17 15:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by the brain box 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her on birth control. I'm not saying to condone the activity, I personally don't believe in sex before marriage and was a virgin till my wedding night, but we live in the real world and this girl is going to concieve a baby if you don't do something.
2006-09-17 15:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by toomanycommercials 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make an appointment with a gynecologist. Have your daughter put on birth control pills or the patch.
2006-09-17 15:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
14 is way too young. my mom would have beat my butt. i say talk to her and try to learn more about him and how she feels about him.. but explain to her that you are only looking out for her, and she is def. too young for this. she does not want to be a 15 year old mom, and make sure she also knows getting pregnant will NOT mean she will keep the guy.
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-17 15:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by bridgetsmomma621 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isnt good. no one younger than 16 should be having sex. but if they are you need to talk to her about it. you need to make sure shes being safe about it and wont end up hurt or in trouble. dont try to forbid it because that will only make them more eager, jsut see how much damage control you can do on the situation. take her to planned parenthood and make sure she gets on birth conntrol.
2006-09-17 15:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. personally feed her a birth control pill every morning. if shes already sexually active, i certainly wouldnt trust her to stop b/c you said so.
2. I'm guessing she needs better supervision here.. where are you when shes off with a 17 yo having sex?. get her a BABYSITTER if you have to.
2006-09-17 15:27:40 · answer #11 · answered by Mina222 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋