How do you tell a girl that she may be a little immature, without hurting her feelings or making yourself sound like a jerk? What kind of things could i tell her soo she could act more mature?
2006-09-17 15:03:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either a person is mature or not. The only way for her to grow up is through life experiences. Otherwise, she is just putting on a front and pretending to be something she's not to make you happy. You should either accept her as she is or move on.
2006-09-17 15:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to say anything, really. Over time spent with you thru experience, ignoring, walking away from, or changing the subject from immature behavior/s will give her a hint that it's not cute anymore, or its a bad habit that doesnt get positive results or that it doesnt get your attention. Give her positive feedback when she's acting mature. If it's manners, table or otherwise, it's best to say something.
2006-09-17 15:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a good way to do it. She will perceive it one of three ways--hurt, anger, or indifference. You may even see an increase in the immature behavior to prove that she is fine the way she is. If she is embarrassing or too immature for you, you may need to tell her good-bye until she grows up. Chances are she is going to be an older version of who she is now. Her "immaturity" may just be who she is. Good luck!
2006-09-17 15:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by Helpful Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually had the same problem.
You know its hard to change someone you like or have liked when you think they Act immature.
Just give her a look saying you disapprove. like you don't think its funny and maybe tell her politely to chill.
2006-09-17 15:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Crumbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel honeslty, and say something like your making me feel (blank) when you act like that.. i dont think you would hurt her feelings.. if you think you might then make a joke about the way she acts and she how she'll take it
2006-09-17 15:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she doesn't act her age at times and it's a good thing to always act your age.
2006-09-17 15:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by sugar n' spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to call you after she graduates from Romper Room!
2006-09-17 15:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes honestly is the best policy
2006-09-17 15:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by konala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U CAN TELL HER THAT SHE'S STILL YOUNG, LOOKS YOUNG AND THINK YOUNG..
2006-09-17 15:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by eZY jOHn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋