I'm in love with this guy and have been since last year. We were only really ever "together" for a month, but then talked A LOT afterward. We just got in a huge fight and we're not really on speaking terms and i really want to be again. I wrote him a note about how i fell and everything to give him tomorrow so i wont go blank like i always do when we argue/fight. i need to know if this is ok and what else i could do. I would do almost anything for this guy and hes usually the same way. please help.
2006-09-17 14:52:26 · 14 answers · asked by annabnana76 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, give him the note, but then stay away until he comes to you...give him time to absorb it and make a choice.
2006-09-17 14:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to know about relationships is never to go back to one that is over. The only reason that people go back to old relationships is because after they are over you move on...or sometimes just try to move on...but if we dont find something that we think is better than the last relationship..we start thinking about the good times in the old relationship....and only the good times...you dont think about what went wrong, or the things that you disagree on, or even the bad things that occured during the relationship. It is better to be friends with old flings and not return to "relationship" status. A relationship that has ended once will never be the same again.
2006-09-17 21:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Natty137 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ANNA; you has two choices 1 give him an other chance 2 dump
that guy right away. Reasons is that arguments end relationships and I think you'd better move on also find a decent
man to be with only !
2006-09-17 22:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't cry< ok honey i have been through the same thing i just told him i was sorry me and him don't talk anymore but i dated him for 5 years and we just broke it off this year i hated him for a while but then he came up to me and hugged me so i fell in love with him again i still love him he was my first love, he is my only today i will love him tomorrow in every single way, just tell him u are sorry talk to him and let him know u are feeling
2006-09-17 21:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with spilling your true feelings out to him. Just tell him what's on your mind. If you have to...write down your thoughts on paper in case you do draw a blank when you are face to face with him.
2006-09-17 21:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here is what you have to do dont give him the note you have to rip that up you just have to say what come from your heart not your head that is the mistake most people make is because they say what is in there head not there heart good luck for tomorro
2006-09-17 22:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by becc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely talk to him. Give him that note. Dont be to upset! Everything will work out!!
Good luck hun!!
2006-09-17 21:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could figure out what you did or said to hurt him or make him angry and go to him and take full responsibility for your actions and apologize and beg him to forgive you...then back off a bit and give him time to get over it...time to forgive you and time to heal...If he's mature...he'll come around. Best wishes
2006-09-17 22:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT, and i repeat, do NOT give him the note. talking about relationships and problems only sends the guys away. trust me. they choose to be around women who make them FEEL good and that make them want to be around them. you will only send him further away. my advice: when you see him, just look at him straight in the eye and smile and let him come to YOU. you will have plenty of time after that to repair your arguments casually. play it cool. you will win.
2006-09-17 21:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by evonne i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Give him space. Wait a month, if he doesn't respond, it means it wasn't meant to be in the first place.
2006-09-17 21:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋