i like this guy named andrew he has a girlfriend and theyve been toghther for a month now ( they have hung out once during this month) she in 8th grade and were in 10th .... he told me he liked me and we've been talking and i asked him if he's going to dump his girlfriend and he said he doesnt know yet and to stop putting him on the spot and ive tried to callhim but he never answers so what should i do
2006-09-17 14:16:53 · 21 answers · asked by Ashely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's very clearly telling you to back off. You should stop calling him. It's okay to say hello in passing every so often, but don't go looking for him.
If you pile on the pressure now, you'll just end up driving him away. Then when he does break up with this 8th grader, you'll be at the bottom of his list, not the top.
2006-09-17 14:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted you, he would dump his girlfriend and go with you. But, since he says "he's thinking about it", he doesn't want to take you seriously, and is probably a player. Just try to look at him as a friend, but other than that, just forget it. Try to find someone older and more mature to like instead of someone your own age group. You'll find tons more results with the older ones.
2006-09-17 14:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't ask. Just sit back and stay out of the game. If he likes you, and he want's to be with you, he'll make the necessary means (ie, breaking up with his current girlfriend). If he tells you he's interested, while he's with someone else -- you should question if that's someone you want to be with anyway (he could do the same thing to you).
2006-09-17 14:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by WeekendWarrior 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is he even dating her if they've hung out once in a month?? anyway i'd keep liking him and see what happens if he still doesnt brake up with the 8th grader than find another guyâ¥
2006-09-17 14:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by amandafay♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some more time, like a week or so, and then if he still doesn't know, I would say move on. There are others out there and if it is meant to be , you two will end up together.
2006-09-17 14:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by frog_ciara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you should lay off asking him about his girlfriend....
maybe his feelings have changed and you putting him on the spot and calling him (he probably assumes you're going to ask about it) isnt making it easier for him to decide between the 2 of you...next time you see him, dont bring up the gf at all..and then see where it goes!
2006-09-17 14:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by CTJT4me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him more n then when u feel comfortable then tell him how u really feel about him n then say i like u alot n i really would like 2 go out wit u n then wait for his responce if he say i dont kno then tell him by the time u guys gradurate from high skool dat same gurl is gonna be flirtin with other boys n he wont kno
2006-09-17 14:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by manny f 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's pretty obvious that if he doesn't pick up the phone and he can't be straight forward with you that he is playing games.I don't want to sound negative but you know how it is. Good luck!
2006-09-17 14:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Bank$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, don't waste time on someone who doesn't respect you enough to level with you. Good luck, I know you will find the right one, and then you will forget all about this fool.
2006-09-17 14:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget that butt and find a guy that isn't a pedophile! You should thin k more of yourself then to let this guy walk all over you like this.
2006-09-17 14:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by nopotofgold 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋