Ive been verbaly abused and threatened at a young age and even now i cant build confidence and get out of the way of it to save my life. Im twenty three and she makesme get treated like a 3 year old when to start im a stand up good dude. I think shes ill and trying to escape it by putting it on me. I need to get out.
2006-09-17 14:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by justin g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i feel for you... and yes a constant verbal beat down can ruin your confidence....
2006-09-17 14:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by hugtheplag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, you do need to get out of this abusive relationship.
I'm not sure if you're talking about your mother, wife, girlfriend, or what not (since you didn't elaborate on those details) however, no matter who is doing this to you, they don't deserve to be around you. You need to get away from this person and move on with your life because if you don't you will continue to be the subject of the abuse day after day.
Verbal abuse can sometimes be even more painful then physical abuse. Both types of abuse are painful and end up scarring you mentally rather then physically. And, many people who are verbally abused end up cutting and with disorders or depression.
You know that you need to get out, so stop sticking around and do just that, get out.
2006-09-17 14:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may not be the answer your looking for but what about trying to get to see a therapist? Someone to talk to will make you feel better and make her see that she cant treat you like that because your going to do something about it... and if that doesn't change anything then get out - i put up with a verbally abusive man for eight years and finally got the nerve to ask him to leave last November... it's been a horrible year (everything has broken and he's fighting the divorce) but i can honestly say i feel like myself again and am soooooo happy i made this choice...
2006-09-17 14:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you say is true, then you have a natural tendency to be attracted to the type of person that will CONTINUE to abuse you. Even somebody who normally wouldn't, your personality will unconsciously direct them to abuse you.
You are in desperate need of a lifestyle change. And not just superficial (move to different city, change job, etc.) I'm talking about an actual change in your outlook on life. If you cannot find it yourself, which most people can't, seek professional help.
2006-09-17 14:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and get counseling. Verbal abuse is not different from physical abuse..... Free yourself by helping yourself.... Good luck
2006-09-17 14:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by e_spehr_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....you need to get out...dont tolerate it any more...you didnt say how old you are...but if your are old enough to leave home, then leave, verbal abuse is nasty....thats all i can say about that...you need to gain self esteem also...you can do that if you move out....seek some help also...also seek help for her....she is the one who has the problem,....not you....dont have her make you believe any different...your a good person....talk to someone you trust...or tell her to lay off...good luck
2006-09-17 14:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been emotionally abused so I feel your pain. I suggest that you get help if you really want to work it out. If you've done all you can then go.
2006-09-17 14:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a verbally and phyically abused child now councillar i say yes,verbalabuse is nasty and can destroy yoursef esteem and make you very introverted,please seek some help you can over come.....hugs
2006-09-17 14:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to change your situation, weather it's leaving of getting counseling.
2006-09-17 14:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋