He hit on me, took me out 1nce, calls me 2x's a day almost every day, plus I see him everyday at my sons practice. Yet he hasn't time to take me out again but he talks about sex with me over the phone. What am I missing?
2006-09-17 14:03:39 · 26 answers · asked by Nothereanymore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's pretty busy with you son's practice, and I'm sure he's got other jobs to deal with. My guess is that he's too busy for a relationship, but he still feels attracted to you in a physical sense. Try not to let him pressure you in to anything unless you feel like he cares about something other than your body. Hope that helps!
2006-09-17 14:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
GIRL....WAKE UP!! MAYBE.. you are being too shy..or not hinting enough? Take the initiative and be straight with him. Some men are afraid to act on instinct, and think that maybe they are miss interpreting signals. Tell him how you feel about him, how crazy you are about him, or just tell him straight out. "YOU MAKE FEEL SO SPECIAL". Ask him out and if he is interested, he WILL make time! Don't be too forward if it makes you feel uncomfortable, but definitely DO something about it, or say something, BEFORE it is too late! Sometimes life throws Frisbees at us and we HAVE to JUMP..and grab them...before they fly away and a smarter person takes advantage! Are you going to own that Frisbee..or pass it on? GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-17 14:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he's a horny old goat? Drop a few hints that a date or two might be nice. If he doesn't pick up on that, his mind is on just one mission. You'll have to deal with that as you see fit. You might have to switch your son to a different instructor however.
2006-09-17 14:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are his fall back woman. You play sex games with him and he gets to stay off the hook. If it's ok with you, you are obviously an adult. I say go for it. If it is not, have a heart to heart and explain you are not that kind of woman. Either way, beautiful men can be arrogant, don't let him off the hook.
2006-09-17 14:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your missing his other girlfriend.. He has time for phone sex but no time for dates something is wrong with the situation maybe do a little investigating
2006-09-17 14:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds new. Go slow. Ever think HE could be missing something? There's too many "what if's" here. What if he doesn't like you in that way anymore? What if he's afraid you don't like him? What if he just wants to "play"? What if he wants to take his time? What if...what if...what if? (lol) Be blunt. No more what if's. FEEL ME? ;)
2006-09-17 14:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by skoosh_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this 'beautiful' man sounds like a perv. .obviously, he is looking to get laid but doesnt sound like the type of guy who want a serious relationsip. i mean, he wants to have phone sex with you after one date. ..but then again, what the heck do i know. besides, he is 'beatiful' and that is all that really matters right?
women, go figure.
2006-09-17 14:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A jerk.It is obvious that you had sex on the first date. You cannot build a relationship on sex.It must evolve around friendship first.Bail out NOW.Its guys like him that give us a bad name,and women like you who encourage it.
2006-09-17 14:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The big picture. He is a pervert. Step back. Keep the relationship professional.
2006-09-17 14:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably missing out on some great sex. Try to get him to find time to take you out again.
Good luck. Good job getting such a hottie :)
2006-09-17 14:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋