We used to have alot of fun but lately we are constantly argueing over something stupid. Is there anything we can do to try and ease up to where we don't get so mad for every little thing the other one does? I really DO love him and I think the world of him. He is like my best friend, and I don't want to loose him over something ridiculous. :((
2006-09-17 14:03:11 · 14 answers · asked by Kaycee W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I almost always end up apologizing.
2006-09-17 14:13:56 · update #1
If it has gotten to the point where his little mannerisms piss you off (ie. the sound when he chews, the way he always says the same thing when you phone him, etc.) it may be time to call it a day.
2006-09-17 14:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you take a step back and avoid the arguement and when he cools down....both of you talk calmly about the incident. I believe that something stupid is not intentional and theres not a good reason for both of you to get mad. This relationship requires the both of you to believe in each other...so the next time he gets mad....stay calm as an arguement will make the matter worst
2006-09-17 14:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by jcol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nature of your arguments are the key. Are you arguing because he left the cap off the toothpaste tube? Don't laugh. I know marriages that have dissolved for that reason. That's stupid. I would say that something is bothering him. You need to sit down and talk. Get to the root of the problem no matter how perilous it might be. You are very clear in your feelings about him, but do not say that his feelings are mutual. Are we to assume that they are?
2006-09-17 14:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok as long as you two are able to work through whatever problem you had and were arguing about. It's not ok if you just put it off and ignore it when you guys meet if the issue was not resolved. Such fighting should not be the norm however.
2016-03-27 06:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well its like the saying
You only hurt the ones you love and they hurt you back.
Just try somethig new and forget about the stupid "argument"
i do that with the one i love and we make up...cuz we love eachother and don't wanna lose eachother.
All you got to do is...like try and stop fighting over stupid stuff.
idk thats the best i can try and give you in advice.
2006-09-17 14:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk if he loves you as much as it seems you do him then ask eachother why..Sometimes beign together for awhile things get a bit hard but if your both really inlove it will pass,we all go threw rough times...goodluck
2006-09-17 14:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes I think that when two people get bored fighting occurs I have the same problem after 3 yrs....I just don't fight with him and ignore him when he tries to fight with me..Eventually he gets over it and everything is fun again. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-17 14:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a little time apart. some times when your around someone 2 much u just get on eachothers nerves.
2006-09-17 14:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by myfrogisaprince1211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a time out,maybe spend the weekend away from each other.
2006-09-17 14:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by allwayshappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you arguing about?
Who will be the first to stop it?
2006-09-17 14:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋