Am I bisexual?

Question

I am a 17 years old girl. I'm not sure if I am bi or straight anymore. It's very confused, and always have been. I remember when I was about 13-14 years old I thought I was bi but then I changed and was sure I was straight. I thought it was probably something I just went through, like most people at that age. But now, I look at girls sometimes too(and when i say that i mean i think about them sexually). Guys too of course. Mostly guys. I can't imagine myself being in a relationship with a girl...Mostly because I feel like it isnt right because i want a husband and a familly and all that...I also remember when I was a child that I liked a girl once .. but also a guy. <.<;
Am I a bisexual in denial or something..

Answer 1

The spectrum of human sexuality is like a football field with a few people at one goal or at the other. Most people fall somewhere in between, so you are perfectly normal.

Answer 2

Here's the thing, you're probably just sexually attracted to females, but that doesn't exactly mean that you're bisexual. You're only 17, you still have time to figure some things out. Just because you think that a girl is beautiful or whatnot doesn't make you bisexual. I don't know you, but I do know me, and I think that many girls are pretty, do I think that I'm bisexual becaus of that, heck knawll...why? Because I know that I couldn't see myself in a relationship with a girl without completely laughing through it all. (Understand?) What is a bisexual? That's just a silly name that the government came up with to identify something that they're also confused about themselves. It's suppose to mean to date both sexes, but to be honest, if I was a guy I'd date me too so now what? If I was a guy, I'd date plenty of females, but am I bisexual because I think that way? No.

Answer 3

If you're sexually attracted to both guys and girls, then you're probably bi.

Don't worry about that too much. It's a lot more common than people admit to have sexual feelings about members of the same sex. Sometimes it's just a phase.

But don't start going out with guys just because you think being in a relationship with a woman isn't right. Really think about your reaction when you look at guys and when you look at girls without worrying about whether it's "right" or whether you want a family.

Answer 4

Your just curious and there is nothing wrong with that. As you get older you will seem to find out more. If your feelings change for the same sex, then you know you just went through a stage. You still are young and have some growing up to do. You may figure it out tomorrow, or you may figure it out 10 yrs from now. Just give it time, because your still young. Good Luck and there is absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or curious, so dont let anyone make you think other wise.

Answer 5

You were raised with the concept of marriage, husband, & children. Your in conflict with that and the real way you feel. Gay folks are born to be gay, they don't just wake up one day and decide that they will be gay! By the way, this is what scientist are starting to believe as well! A bi person is a gay person that will not accept their reality! There is a few that are sexual opportunist, animals, both genders or any thing or else that will let them do it!

Once you accept your self, your body will tell you your direction!

Answer 6

No, you are not unless you commit the act totally. Since you have NOT been with another pretty girl sexually, then what u r doing is basically innocently admiring everyone's beauty around you. All your hormones are fresh, new, and very vibrant at this age of life. Do Not force yourself to experience in lesbianism just because to satisfy a curiousity. Find a nice cute boy friend to hang with. good luck.

Answer 7

ur r just confused. dont get it twisted understand this clearly that man was created for woman and woman for man not man for man and woman for woman. If u belive in God u know that this is not of him. this is not what u want to hear but im saying it anyway. can u imanagine ur self actually going through the motions of being gay? i mean really, how will u feel about ur self afeter u have tried being gay and realize that this was not for u. i mean look at this u can get hiv from this as well. what makes u attractive to a girl anyway? u have the same thing that they have. with society these days its seems as through it has become a fad to be gay, a lot of young ppl turn to this but this is not a good way to be, i feel u r confused u really do like men. i'll pray for u

Answer 8

i'm bisexual and know that i am looking to feel happiness with somebody, wether it be male or female. if you're attracted sexually to women as well, then yes you are bisexual, simple as that. now about you not thinking you could see yourself in a relationship with a girl, that's natural to feel simply because it is a more complicated and less accepted situation then to conform and tell your mind you need to be with a man. but there's no need to rush. let your body and your thoughts guide you, and you'll see you don't have to put a label on yourself.


wish you the best of luck with your confusions.

Answer 9

Well, I don't know. I have though of girls in that way and I don't think I am bi. I couldn't ever be with a woman in a relationship. I think it is just that women are beautiful and caring. Men don't care and the male anatomy looks weird! lol

Answer 10

you're 17 and the hormones are still trying to figure that out. Be patient and try and think of other things besides your sexuality until you are at least 21. Things will be all figured out by that time.

Take Care