I'm a beautiful woman, I'm smart, funny, I have a descent job, I'm working on my B.A. degree. Common sense would tell you, I'm a good catch. However, for the last year, every guy I have dated has either tried to get down my pants on the first date or they are total gentlemen that after 2-3 weeks of seeing each other they take off and never want to speak to me again. Recently, I was seeing a guy that I knew pretty well. We saw each other 2-3 times a week and had alot of fun together. After a month of dating, I finally slept with him, and now he barely speaks to me and doesn't seem to want to hang out with me anymore. The guy I dated before him, did the same thing after a couple of weeks, except I didn't sleep with that guy. What the hell is going on? Is there something wrong with me or is it them?
2006-09-17 14:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by Sierra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men are intimidated by smart, strong women. just go on with your studying, go out on dates and have fun. wait to have sex next time and the right man will come along when you least expect it.
2006-09-17 14:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by lil_angel64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are not the only one who is in this kind of situations.Many women trust their own instinct too much. Just ponder a moment to look back at all those relations you have had.
You might find your answers there. Or don't feel shy to ask your former boyfriends what actually when wrong or the bad side about you. Men are egoistic human beings and they will blurred out the truth if you ask them in a very subtle way. The information gather will give you the pro and cons what to do next time around
2006-09-17 21:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by david l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens because you seem to be attracting losers. You are going to have trouble until you find someone that you really should be with. You have learned a lot about people, and by now can probably tell the ones to avoid - use what you know, and don't accept any more invitations from this type of man. You can do better.
2006-09-17 21:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by missouri bulldog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is NOTHING wrong with you its the men who have a problem. they are sick most only want sex & weather they get it on the first date or after a month or two they dont mind because there off after. just be friends with them first then when you get to know them you can sleep with them. or maybe the men you have met wern"t good enough for you. or just plain stupid.
2006-09-17 21:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick better dates. Most younger men want to play the field they aren't ready to eat from one trough.
2006-09-17 21:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you intimidate them without meaning to and you become like a trophy that getting you to say yes to them is like a prize. And that becomes all that it is. Try mellowing down a bit.
2006-09-17 21:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋