And what is so bad is that he didn't even call or say it in person he sent it all in a text msg.
2006-09-17 13:54:37 · 23 answers · asked by ~confused~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all your answers i'm feeling better. You are all so kind.
2006-09-17 14:13:44 · update #1
GIRL ITS HIS LOST!!!I WENT THROUGH THE SAME SH*T WIT MY EX...AND NOW HE'S CALLIN' CUZ HE WANTS TO GET RIGHT...LOL!!!BUT IT'S GOIN' TO HURT HIM WHEN HE SEE'S THAT YOU'RE GETTIN' ON WIT OUT HIM...TRUST!!!DON'T SWEAT IT!!!GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-17 14:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men have a very hard time breaking on face to face. Alot of men will just stop calling, or refuse to answer the phone, or get a family member or friend to say they are out. Confrontations are not that easy for some men to withstand, so text msg or email is so much easier. Yes it is cowardly but it is the easy way out. Since he didnt have the courage and respect to discuss this out in person or on the phone do you really think this man has what it takes to be your man? Really think that one out.
2006-09-17 21:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was a total coward for doing it by text rather than at least saying it himself over the phone, though he should have done it in person. You sound like you are too good a person to have ever gone out with the likes of him, and I know it's hard, but when you are ready, you will find someone else, someone who will treat you better.
2006-09-17 21:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he did it so cowardly, I think I would text back -How did you find out about Charles?:) Now if he comes around to find out more about charles and says he did not text the message, a friend or someone else did it as a joke...tell him so did you!
You know that if he is for real and he probably is, there are alot of jerks out there, you don't need him. You can do better, trust me.
2006-09-17 21:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by beverly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're even better off than me, Girl. Could have been worse, believe me. Take a hint. We can't force ourselves on people. Just take it one day at a time. Don't worry, we're on the same boat. Let's see where the ride takes us. Not easy, in fact it's like a trip to hell each day living without him. But I still wake up in the morning, there MUST be hope then. For sure nothing stays the same, even heartaches.
2006-09-17 21:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mywords of wisdom are if the looser didn`t have enough guts to break up with you in person ,then move on ,forget the coward and be happy with who you are,there kind men in the world,not all cowards and if you run into him,smile and be proud of who u are and they say coward..........big time
2006-09-17 20:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was too coward to tell you face to face, then he's really not that much of a man about the situation. Focus on self and your happiness, because there are plenty of better guys in the world...
2006-09-17 20:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a heel, and more than that, a coward. He didn't think enough of you to even talk to you - and no matter what has happened between you, you deserved to hear face to face and have your questions answered. You are better off.
2006-09-17 21:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by missouri bulldog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on someone that doesnt care about you. Show him that you can live happily without him. Move on. There are more to life then to just spend your time thinking about such kind of person.
Good luck dear :)
2006-09-17 21:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by swap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant eat, cant sleep, crying alot, feeling like your stomache is going to explode....oh i am sorry....breaking up is horrible...feels like someones ripped out your heart and put it thru a mincer...i know the feeling....what you need to do is focus on your friends...you will need them for comfort, someones shoulder...the upside of this is...more girlie nights out...more eyeing up the blokes...more fun...i know you are sad now but you cant stay sad forever...you'll meet someone special..one that wont text you a goodbye....you are worth 1 million of him, let him go...he'll soon realize he's made a big mistake, then it'll be too late..cheer up sweetie...you'll be just fine...don't sit and around the house moping, get your sassiest clothes out...get some make-up on, do the hair and nails and go on the town with your friends and WOW them guys...get out there and have fun...don't waste any time...there's plenty of blokes out there who would love to see you....his loss honey
2006-09-17 21:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys are not worth it,not man enough to stand in front of you and tell you face to face,those kind of guys will be a nobody though life,move on and find someone who cares and have fun in your life.
2006-09-17 20:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋