Ok so i've been living here for a long time and no boy has asked me out or even liked me (that i know of) I talk to the guys and i flirt a lot, granted i am a little shy when it comes to talking to them, but i manage to talk to them. Please tell me what i need to do to make some of the guys to like me or even ask me out. I don't care who gives me advice, just give it to me please people.
2006-09-17 13:50:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes when someone is shy the eagerness to overcome it can come off as a bit much. Relax, be yourself and it will happen for you. Also don't be afraid to let friends know that you wouldn't mind getting fixed up...they may know just the right guy for you!!
Good Luck Sweetie I hope you find Mr. Right
2006-09-17 13:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by N L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Do what you do, and when the time comes they will too. Dont rush the boy thing. The only place that gets you is to trouble. Concentrate on school, or work. Sooner or later, the boys will be flying around you.
Or what you can do is be more outgoing. If there is a guy you like, go ask him if he wants to go to a movie. The worst that can happen is no. Just try.
2006-09-17 20:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by crzyfiregirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you flirt a lot yet you are shy. Those two don't mix together.
What you need to do :
Act and think mature, self confident.
Project your person as an emotionally balanced being.
There is nothing more off putting to men than a drama queen.
Acquire impeccable manners, perfect poise, elegance and refinement.
Never ever utter a profanity.
Be self sufficient. Men find needy women off putting.
Finally learn to like yourself and everybody. Don't be judgemental.
2006-09-17 20:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes friends with a guy. Just hang out with a guy you know and get along with well. It must be someone who you can trust to be brutally honest. Let him get to know you a bit and then ask him the same question. He will be in a position to give you a much better answer than we can, because he will know a lot of things about you that those of us online don't.
2006-09-17 20:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take the bull by the horns - which it sounds like you do - then do it! You talk to the boys, and are waiting for them to ask you out, which is not working, so my advice is - to ask one out yourself, make it something small - say coffee or lunch and go from there! (don't make it like you are too available or they may get the wrong impression, which is another reason to just go for the coffee or luncheon thing!)
Good luck !
2006-09-17 20:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by brian c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you'll have to be a little more forward. Pick the one you like and just ask him out. Guys these days don't always make the first move (it's more of a challenge trying to get the girl to do it).
2006-09-17 20:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're flirting too much with too many guys. some decent guys just don't want to see the goods before they buy. so if they see you talking and flirting with other guys, (1) they might think you're "sl*t", or (2) they'll think you're not available. so with that, stop flirting with all the guys because you think you might get a date like that. have a little respect for yourself.
2006-09-17 20:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by Chris E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking them out???
That might work... I say no more playing games. I lived in the US for a while and the dating games people play are just so confusing and so innerving!
Want to go out, ask them! Don't wait for them to ask you out... What worked for some people I know there was also online dating...
2006-09-17 20:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...hopefully ur not ugly...u don't try too hard to fit in or nuthin like that. of course ima tell u the thousand old advice: jus be urself. it takes time for ppl to get to kno u and decide what they think about u. when i moved to a new skool in a different state i thought nobody liked me. it took a while b4 i found out that there were ALOT of guys at my skool who liked me. maybe they were jus shy. the bad thing about it was- they started tellin me AFTER i got a boyfriend. so jus take ur time, don't be too desperate..they'll come. and if there's sum1 u like-LET THEM KNO!!
2006-09-17 20:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by struggling student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk too much. Just give them your sweetest smile. That should be enough to encourage an interested guy to walk up to you.
2006-09-17 20:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋