this what i mean u and your boyfriend are soooo in love well he tells u that he loves u all the time and u believe him.The first time he cheates on u and u take him back and all the others times too.what would u do this last time?
2006-09-17 13:32:11 · 32 answers · asked by angel r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
didn't nobody do this to me i jus want to kno so that i can tell somebody else what they can do~~~u fell me
2006-09-17 13:44:37 · update #1
girl you need to get out now because either he has a sex addiction or he doesn't love you so it may be hard but you need to leave him just think would you want to marry this man and as long as you take him back he will continue to do it and don't forget there is AIDS, HIV,and STD if he loved you then he would respect the fact about your health and your heart let him go there is no need to explain
2006-09-17 13:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by icandi22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am completely in love with my man, but if he cheated on me, there wouldn't be a second chance. My heart would be broken and I wouldn't risk that again. Especially where you have STDs to think about these days. So, yes, I would say it's over, but I would do that after the first cheat.
2006-09-17 13:40:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a little slow aren't you.
5 times he cheated and 5 times you took him back.
Naawwwww. I think you should stay and help him get into the Guiness Book of World records for the most times to cheat on an idiot.
2006-09-17 13:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he stop cheating at all if he is forgiven each time i mean hell he has it great. Now to be honest if he "loved you" like he says he wouldn't be cheating to begin with move on and find someone that will love you the way you deserve to be loved
2006-09-17 13:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he's already shown you it's over by cheating. What do you want, to be cheated on twenty more times? The dude is not going to stop. Have some self-esteem and run like hell..
2006-09-17 13:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. A guy who loves you would not cheat on you. It's very easy to tell someone "I love you", it doesn't mean it's true.
He's discovered that he can do anything he likes, and all he has to do is apologise to you. Great! he thinks, I can have the best of both worlds.
Stop being a doormat.
2006-09-17 13:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you, but not enough to keep it in his pants. Do you really think you deserve that? It is not necessarily a question of love, but what you, as a woman, deserve to be treated like. Love does not mean he is the right person for you. I loved a past boyfriend who I know loved me back, but he was very physically abusive. I, as a woman, did not deserve to be treated like a punching bag, as you do not deserve to be treated like an inadequate woman.
2006-09-17 13:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by blackanubis9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>.<
Are you kidding me?!
Okay, sorry. Done venting.
Now let me tell you: one of love's biggest aspects is RESPECT.
If this fool has cheated on you at all, it's a general lack of respect, and therefore, love is not really there. It may just be infatuation.
Five times, though? Forget HIM respecting YOU!
Respect YOURSELF and get out of that relationship while there's still time.
Till next time,
Raven
2006-09-17 13:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They saying goes "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!" or something like that. What it means -- you have to take responsibility for being cheated on at this point. Obviously he's going to keep cheating because you let him. Why should he change... he has everything he wants -- you hanging on and his girls on the side. If you don't want to be cheated on, you have to leave this relationship. Period. Be strong for yourself, girl!
2006-09-17 13:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by wahine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I would have said it was over the first time he cheated on me. You are just giving him permission to keep on cheating.
2006-09-17 13:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋