My mother calls me all different things. Shes done this for years. At first i tried to ignore it but i find myself turning into these things after she yells away all my motivation and invades my privacy just to make me a lowlife.
2006-09-17 13:30:12 · 12 answers · asked by justin g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This isn't "harassment," this is "abuse."
Get your GED and leave home - I did this years ago and did just fine.
2006-09-17 13:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by John the Revelator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out "verbal abuse" for a internet search. See if it sounds familiar. I bet it will. Name-calling is abusive. Screaming, yelling, intimidating, and all that is waaaay not right. She obviously has a problem and it isn't you. So sorry. She will need to stop. You will need to see your school or local counselor. I don't know where you live, but there are usually all kinds of resources available. If you need more help, just contact me and I'll give it my best shot. You are right that what she's doing is really, really wrong. I feel for you.
2006-09-17 13:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not a low life sweetie...dont have her make you believe you are...gain self esteem...get confidence, hold your head up high and be proud of you...she's calling you names because she is bitter about something...she's the one with the problem...not you....if this gets too bad and you cant handle the verbal any more...see a close family member who you trust...talk to them, tell them whats going on and how unhappy you are, or see someone at school, this cannot go on, she does love you, she may have problems but i do believe she loves you even though it looks like she hates you, she may have stuff going on in her life and she is taking it out on you, i am not making excuses for her because verbal abuse is nasty, (any abuse is nasty) but she may need help.... i have seen this happen before and it's not nice, please seek help..... if this is getting too much for you...do not suffer in silence, talk to someone and get it stopped once and for all... you have taken the first step by coming here, thats a good move....
2006-09-17 13:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, that is not considered harassment under the law. However, it is a form of mental abuse. Talk to your school counselor or your pastor about this. It deserves professional attention.
2006-09-17 13:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words-tell someone. If you've told her how you feel and she continues to do so, then this is harassment and you need to tell someone of authority. However, if you have not talked to her about this yet, then I suggest you do that before telling someone. You could tell on her and she wouldn't even know what she did wrong. Think of talking about it to her as an unknown "warning".
2006-09-17 13:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really is a civil count number, and the help that you would possibly want to search for is the interior reach county /state authorities. the defense force is especially geared for the UCMJ (Uniform Code of defense force Justice) and enforcement of Federal regulation. you would possibly want to even ought to coordinate with the jurisdiction that she is from. i might want firstly the interior reach sheriff's place of work. yet i might want to signify that you come across a fashion to settle it amicably. might want to nicely be a separate telephone variety for her to call that could want to take a message if he's unavailable. something to think about, honey is going farther than vinegar. you would not favor your spouse to imagine that you dislike part of him or visa versa.
2016-11-27 20:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you live in her home still she can do whatever she wants as far as your privacy goes. As far as name calling or breaking your self esteem, I don't think you can do anything about that either. Well, YOU can do something about it but no one else can help you unless you are being physically abused.
2006-09-17 13:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not harressment its abuse,no one has the rtight to abuse this way,abuse of this type can hur tyou forever,if she don`t stop please seek some help,i have seen many people who`ve been verbally abused and its a nasty life to live,could be many resons why she does this,but i`d say hey try telling her this is abuse and tel her it can affect you for the rest of your life,if this don`t work try talkig to a councillar,good luck i know its painful
2006-09-17 13:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its called child protection services no one desrves to be treated like that maybe you should stay with a friend or family member for a while
2006-09-17 13:32:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gotta live with it..i'm afraid, it's the unwritten law of family life.
if you are over 18, then get a job and move out
2006-09-17 13:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋