What would you do if your BF told you a secret. He told you he was bi-sexual and told you not to tell anyone, that no one but his family and you knew about it. And then, you read his Yahoo! profile and there it says: new interests: bi, incest What would you do? a) confront him about it b) Yell at him and curse like a sailor c) cry and never mention it again d) break up with him?
2006-09-17 13:29:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's bi and incest and I have broken up with him! Geez...there has to be at least 20 answers
2006-09-17 13:35:48 · update #1
I'm not a chick sorry but.............Bi, Incest? WTF call that dude out. Thats some weird sh*t
2006-09-17 13:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by mxpowertbl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's your boyfriend, tell him you do not want to be in a bi-sexual relationship, don't curse, don't be mean because he's different from other boys. I have two gay friends, they admitt it, and it doesn't bother them. Don't cry, it is probably startling to you, but don't be scared, or mad, be proud that he confided in you, and be happy he has that much trust for you. Be happy he came out of his shell. Try to continue your life like you did before this incident, if you act different around him than before, it might make him feel bad, or if he already feels bad, worse. Don't advertise and go along with his wishes to keep it a secret until he is ready to confront his peers about this. He's your bf, he still likes girls remember this, but again if your not interested in having a bi-sexual boyfriend tell him, but tell him you want to stay close and get through this together, he still likes you, because he confided in you, best of wishes, Alison
2006-09-17 13:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely_Lady™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi is one thing, and no big deal, he is just pulling you into his lifestyles. Sounds like a big step for him, but Incest?!! What the hell? If you are asking the question, you are disturbed. Get out of there. Break up with him, and tell him why.
2006-09-17 13:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break with him as soon as possible. Think about this guy is bi, so u really don't know if he has a boyfriend. Guys like that need to know that they can't have both. Get tested if I were also!
2006-09-17 13:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
incest is one of his new interests? I think he is sick in the head. Do yourself a favor and move on... You will save yourself a lot of wasted time with this boy...But do you really have the guts to move on? Or are you like most girls... ask for advice and stay in a shitty relationship.
2006-09-17 13:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this has happen to me i would just brake up with my boy friend cause i think it is gross that a guy is like that cause they can pass some diseases, infections and other viruses and plus you can get aids and hiv even if you use protection cause the *** as bactira and you can speard it any where else in the body even in your mouth and plus the girls thing. but that's me though you do what is right and what feel that is right cause it's you not anyone else. i hope that i help you sorry if i didnt and good luck.
2006-09-17 13:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him....your in a realationship, they can be hard. But always give him a chance to tell you the truth. And a reason why he wouldn't tell you the truth. You never know it might be where he told you and then decided to let other people know and just forgot to tell you. Or maybe he wants to be the one to tell people.
2006-09-17 13:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you is to just stop seeing him, you do not have to put his business out their, and you can let him know to, that his secret if safe with you. But for your safety you need to be tested, and go out and meet new people, I always say, find friends, and get to know them, before going to bed, now you don"t know who is who. Tell him you enjoy him as a friend, but you think it will be better for both of us to go our separate ways.
2006-09-17 13:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D, i mean he told you not to do something then turns around and does the exact same thing he told you no to do plus he likes other guys he probly goes in the gay chat rooms
2006-09-17 13:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by ***** K K ***** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
judging by your nickname, I assume you are a teenager. If this relationship is sexual, you probably want to get yourself checked for many thing, HIV, VDs...etc. and talk to your school counselor if they are available and trustworthy. and you definitely have to break up with him. and stay away from this person. he sounds like some one with severe problems. do not confront him about it. you may get yourself into great danger.
2006-09-17 13:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose A. I mean, we can't help it if anyone is bi-incest. Everyone has their own thing.
2006-09-17 13:31:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋