my man is so boring we have been together for 5 years and lived together for 2 months. he don't want to take me out or even let me go out. what iam going to do. iam bored and i feel the need to see other men. is this wrong or what.
2006-09-17 13:25:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My dad is like that, he never leaves the house and forbid my mom to do so as well, he will often put her on a guilt-trip if she is to go out with her friends, so image you spending your whole life doing the same old same old with your boyfriend (husband).
Anyways, it depends on what you want in life, people do not change, they are who they are and if you like the way he is, then stay with him; but if you plan to fix him up, don't bother, he will not change.
2006-09-17 13:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids? Do you have the ability to leave? Did he take you out before when you were dating? What do you think is going on?
If it is not resolvable, leave, THEN see other men, but don't hook up with some controlling jerk.
I wish you the best.
2006-09-17 20:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse it's wrong, how would you feel if he went out with other women? and the boring part, you've been together for five years and you're just finding that out?
2006-09-17 20:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Godfather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your man and tell him how you feel. If he still doesn't change his ways, talk to a counselor and let your man know that you are willing to work things out. If you love him and he loves you, you both need to compromise. Good luck!
2006-09-17 20:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Penny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its wrong to wanna see other men....Hey mabe thats what he needs to start paying attention to you an taking u out......Is to see u with another man...Are mabe you two have outgrown each other...It might be time to move on........
2006-09-17 20:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to cheat on your mate. Communicate! Tell him what you want and if he can't do it for you then you do need to move on. It isn't fair to you or him to stay and pretend you are the woman for him.
2006-09-17 20:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mystique 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweet and sour at times, tell him upfront that youre bored with life.
2006-09-17 20:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, you have a right to. try spicing things up a bit, you be the one who takes him out to eat! remind him how fun it used to be
2006-09-17 20:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anna =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the way u feel. It maybe that he's Peruvian is he? Well can't judge.
2006-09-17 20:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up how to tell buying signals:
Buying_Signals
http://www.sidwiki.com/index.php?title=Buying_Signals
2006-09-17 22:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋