ok.. my daughter is 13yrs old. when i ask her to do chores such as laundry she takes like 2 days to it and she puts clothes everywhere she even hides them in her closet so she doesnt have to put them up. Or she just forgets to do it she says. i asked her to watch her brothers and clean up the apartment a little and when i came back 2 hours later nothing was done. i took her 2 major priv away the phone and comp. Help what do i do if this does not work
2006-09-17 13:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by sunflowerchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
mtv is really just destroying the kids nowadays. I wish you could take that away, if she watches it, that is.
However, my advice would be not get upset about it. Normally I used to get mad when my mom bugged me and bugged me, so I never did it. However, if you just kind of ease into it, maybe she'll like that way more. If not, then keep taking away her stuff
2006-09-17 13:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by joeyschiliro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELCOME to the teenage years. I have 2 daughter 15 and 16 and when you ask them to do a chore they act like they are the only teenagers on the face of the earth that have to actually do something. My nephews room got so bad my sister put tape across the door and said it was condemed!
2006-09-17 13:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by mlafferty04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her not take care of her own things. If she wants to wear wrinkly, dirty clothes then so be it. She'll either decide that she wants to take care of her things, or she won't have nice things anymore. Let her know that when you ask her to do things around the house for the whole family then she has to do it. But with her stuff, let her be. She'll come around, and if she doesn't at least it doesn't need to stress you out anymore.
2006-09-17 13:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by caitlinerika 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You simply do everyone's laundry EXCEPT HERS. When the princess has to like totally wear like the totally nasty smelling like you know clothes and stuff, and her friends like so do not like want to be around her. She'll get the message.
2006-09-17 13:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Green Arrow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy her anymore new clothes or "goodies" until she learns that she has to help around the house. Teens hate not having new stuff.
2006-09-17 13:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by not2nite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all she would have is school and no alone time she will hate it treat her like a little kid if she wants to act like on tell her you will even walk her to the doors at the school if she dont straighten out good luck dear
2006-09-17 13:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by LOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just talked to her and if she doen't do it then do give her her allowance and don't buy her anything she likes until she changes her attitude.
2006-09-17 13:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by foune d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let everything pileup see if they like that
2006-09-17 13:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by green17stone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your won question, she is 13..........
2006-09-17 13:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋