A girl I've been flirting with for weeks, I asked her out and she told me that she was kind of seeing someone, but repeatedly stated she didn't know where it was going, then she grinned and said she wanted to hang out, as friends, and that she would definitely want to hang out with me sometime. She also told me where she lived and liked how I wasn't far from her.
That said, is that sincerity or is she officially off the market? And if she wants to be friends, was I supposed to ask for her number then and there or is better I remind her later on. I work with her
2006-09-17 12:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's interested, but wanted you to know she's already involved and doesn't like to date around. I would try the friendship thing, hang out, talk on the phone, and see what happens.
2006-09-17 12:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by ncmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd interpret her response as sincere for the moment... she does seem to want to get to know you better, which is a positive sign. I'd definitely suggest taking her up on her willingness to hang out and inviting her to do something that's fun, just as friends, with you. That way, you can spend time together without putting pressure on her.
However, once you've hung out a few times, if your interest in her is still romantic, you should come out and tell her you'd like to be more than friends. At that point, if she still wavers, then it's probably best to move on.
2006-09-17 13:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hang out as friends. There is something going on with some other dude that she needs closure on. If it works out with him, you have become a friend. If it does not work out with him, you have become a friend. In either case, you win, cuz the best things start out without expectations. And the most meaningful relationships have friendship as the solid basis. Good luck and enjoy your new friend.
2006-09-17 12:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working with her gives you many opportunities to hang out after work, possibly with other co- workers, get to know her better. Let her get to know you better. Not a rejection, just not sure.
2006-09-17 12:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Diane MSD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell. The best relationships start as friends with common interests. Good luck.
2006-09-17 12:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say, "Hmm, interesting. Kind of seeing someone? Let me know when you know for sure." Don't let her keep you dangling like that. You know, that's a very unattractive trait she has there. Are you sure you want to persue this? You might regret it.
2006-09-17 12:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd drop it, and wait for her to make the next move. It does no good to slobber over a girl, she loses respect for you and you will wind up like putty in her hands.
2006-09-17 12:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it didnt sound like either it sounded like she just wants to be friends and thinks of u as someone she wants to hangout with and not a boyfriend sorry dude! just forget about her and move on
2006-09-17 12:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is honest. maybe she does just want to be friends. or just maybe she like you and it was her way of keeping your interest .keep up the flirting and talking with her.
2006-09-17 12:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like a raincheck to me, goodluck with that =]
2006-09-17 12:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Yellow C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋