i relly like this guy who goes to my chuch but the catch is that were 4 years apart im in 7th grade and hes in 11th and i no he has no girlfriend and i no he likes me as a friend but i dont no if he likes more than just a friend what should i do help!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-17 12:25:37 · 19 answers · asked by ***** K K ***** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's too big of an age difference right now. Maybe when you're in your college years it will work out but there's too much of a maturity difference where you're at in your lives.
It would have a much better chance of working out later on. I met my husband when I was a year out of high school and he was only a freshman. We wouldn't have lasted a month back then. We got together when he was 21 and I was 24. We didn't have any problems then.
If it's meant to be it will happen but if you rush it then you may ruin the relationship. It's hard to be friends after dating.
2006-09-17 12:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember the days when I too longed for the older guys. You probably really like him and I'm sure he really likes you but, you are too young for him. He's old enough to realize this and if he were to want to date you then he's probably not someone you should date. On the other hand you two could be a match made in heaven. Remember, if you are to be together then that will not change 10 years from now. The only thing you can do is wait it out. If he's not around or you lose interest (which is more likely) then you'll know you made the right decision. If he is still around and the two of you have respect and love for each other then the wait will be well worth it. Either way you win! It's hard. Believe me I know it's hard but you must wait until you are older. Have fun in the process. Be his friend only. Most successful relationships begin with strong friendships. Good luck to you and God bless!
2006-09-17 19:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time, dont worry about the age difference if its not more then 5 years then its ok. If he likes you as just a friend dont sweat it he'll come around, and if he likes u as more then a friend dont seem eager let him ask u never go 2 him.
Good Luck
2006-09-17 19:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Taisha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See age doesnt really matter... find out from his friends what does he think of you... because if he looks down upon u then he might take every of your action thinking of u as a KID.....try and hang out more... then wait for the right moment and tell him what you feel.. Even make him some nice card.. and write how much he means to you...
2006-09-17 19:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by outtanicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are 12 years old....you are nowhere near ready to be dating yet...especially a guy who is 16. Wait a few years you will have plenty of opportunities.
2006-09-17 19:28:48 · answer #5 · answered by cabjr1961 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young for a 11th grader fine some one your own age
2006-09-17 19:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know ur gonna be like w/e i like him sooo what but if theyres that much of an age difference hes probly not interested he can get in trouble for that kinda S**t
2006-09-17 19:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_jenster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gosh its just a stupid boy... chill out!
and u go to church... so you should know that God will bring the right guy to you... and you shouldnt have to worry about boys... especially really older ones... bacause the can pressure you into things you shouldnt do... but relax and dont worry about it... if he likes you enough... he'll do something about it. and you shouldnt have to do anything.
2006-09-17 19:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation .....
jus tell him how u feel about him a see if he fells the same way if he does then ask him does he wanna be ur bf and if he dosen jus tell him dats okay
2006-09-17 19:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by -♥ Brii_Baybee♥ - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn grammer, grow up a little, then maybe you'll impress him.
2006-09-17 19:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Trinity♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋