And why didn't he even appreciate me? I dated this guy for a month but it felt longer cuz he was so sweet and caring, calling me all the time, talking on msn, and hanging out. It was so innocent and cute, it never went past kissing, and he never pressured me, he knew I wanted to save sex for marriage and he liked that I was unique. Neways, after a month he said he was "busy" and not ready to handle a relationship. Which is odd since when we were dating he said he's a committed type of guy and that he won't dump me unless I gave him a reason. So even after it was over he would still say hi to me on msn and now that has stopped. I finally blocked and deleted him but I'm still not over him even though it ended months ago. I wish I were but I'm not. I just don't know how he could just forget me so easily and move on. I wish I knew if he was thinking about me but I know he's not. Why was I so forgettable when he made me feel so special?
2006-09-17 12:16:37 · 17 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably moved on to the next girl to break her heart too. But I know that I'm beautiful, smart, and classy and I just don't know how he could just forget about me and not care?
2006-09-17 12:18:07 · update #1
Well this guy was playing you. He didn't mean a word he said. If he did he wouldn't have brushed you off like that. What I would do is realize this fact. You deserve a lot better treatment than that. Move on honey, when your ready.
2006-09-17 12:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by inluvwshana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, hon. He's not forgotten you and he never will. He'll pop up from time to time and say "Hi". Just remember that you once knew someone that made you feel special (and you are) and keep it close to your heart. You will find that most of the people out there make you feel bad about yourself and life in general. Keep the memory and the good feelings, and pray that your future relationships are that special too. He was probably an angel.
2006-09-17 12:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Diane MSD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds so familar. guy meets girl then leaves her not understandi g why. but if your story is like mine you might still find out why. you see it was one of those story book romances you know the one where the guy comes in on a white horse but that is where the story really begins. he left then he came back again and then he left again and then i found out he was getting married because she was expecting a baby. i think he said he would wait for me to be ready for sex but then didn't , girl got pregnant and that was the end of the story. he married and it took me a long time to get over it but i did and it made me stronger. thre is no such thing and a story book romance in this real life.at least not from what i see. good luck and forget about him your'e probably better off anyway.
2006-09-17 12:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you were forgotten, it's just that his feelings changed for you (or he got scared about his feelings for you and ran). You probably didn't do anything wrong. But it's time to let him go. There IS someone else out there for you... but you're not going to find him if you keep trying to figure out what went wrong with this old love!! Let him go and move on. Keep your eyes open for the one who was really meant for you!
2006-09-17 12:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wracking your brains out. He has moved on and now it is time you did. You will find someone who will make you feel loved and wanted. Stop waisting your time on this looser and go out and enjoy yourself. You will start to feel better and think back and ask yourself why you waisted all the time. Good luck.
2006-09-17 12:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is probably bored a little.Did he find somebodyelse?Probably.Was he interested in somebodyelse while dating with you?I do not think so.Yes he was not ready for a long term relationship with you,sorry.
2006-09-17 12:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by SD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i agree with guesswho and it's better for you, maybe he didn't want to have to put pressure on you because your so nice and all that, sometimes guys don't know what to do with or appreciate a good girl until they marry a skank
2006-09-17 12:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by princesstheruler 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he did you a favor.
save your cookie for someone more worthy.
trust me in the long run he will wish he had a girl like you
instead of a cheap thrill.
2006-09-17 12:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by geminidrums 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he probably got tired of waiting for you to put out - hold your ground and don't do anything like that until you're ready - there will be a guy that makes you feel comfortable enough to take that next step - when that happens, please use a condom, dear
2006-09-17 12:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a month is not a long time to a guy. if you know you are those things, then it's his loss. you are better off and someday you'll realize that.
2006-09-17 12:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋