I am intelligent, fairly intellectual, humourous and a writer. Slim, healthy, financially independent - looking for a similar partner but not sure if dating agencies do the job. what do you think? What is your experience?
2006-09-17 12:14:46 · 36 answers · asked by sandi d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, go out there and get yours. Get on Match.com, yahoo personals, myspace...don't waste any time!!!!
2006-09-17 12:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was involved with a woman whom was 10 years old than I. We were together for 12 years. Therefore, I cannot see why you should have any real issues or problems finding someone whom can care about you as much as you can about them.
Being concerned about "how" you meet such a person is well founded. Agencies, newsletters, blogs, and such, are not a terribly good means to satisfy your desire in companionship. Since I am in the dark about everything else in your life I shall simply suggest the following: be more open to your friends and family about your interests. You'll need to let a few walls down to see whom shares such an interest with you. More over, be patient and honest about what you want with yourself and others. Eventually you shall find your genuine partner.
2006-09-17 12:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go to The Lone Tree on a Wednesday night, and enquire about their Dining 2 Meet You evenings. This is for the more mature person 40-60
It's at Thornborough on the A421 near Buckingham.
You only pay for the meal, so meeting a male is Free.
Don't waste your money with an agency or on speed dating.
2006-09-17 12:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by john t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are more likely to find someone that meets your needs at your age. Mainly because you know what you want and need and generally the men in your age bracket know what they want also. I'd like to share a story with you... Just last weekend we moved our camper to another site within our campground. Our new neighbors are in their late 60's early 70's. They are a breath of fresh air! They are so happy and loving. I wondered how long they've been together and asked. The husband replied, "42". I thought wow! 42 years that is impressive. Then his wife slapped him in the arm as they laughed and said, "We've been married 42 months." I talked with them for quite a while and they shared with me how they met. They met on a dating site. They found happiness and so will you. Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-17 12:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tall order. Men start getting scarce around that age. The widowers, the divorced, The separated, The lying still marrieds and the worst, The never married. There's pot bellies , disease , attitudes.
You've really got to put some time in. settle for being comfortable.
I realize that in you somewhere is still the girl who wants to be swiped off your feet.There is still a chance , but slim.
2006-09-17 12:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely play your cards close to your chest to begin with, some of these dating places are full of blokes looking for free sex and an easy financial ride. Just take it steady and if you find someone who you genuinely like then play it safe and check them out, after all you wouldn't buy a secondhand car without knowing it's history would you? Sorry I don't mean to sound cynical just trying to give you some sisterly advice kiddo. Good luck.
2006-09-17 12:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by lottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you will find one. depends on what age you're looking for. If I were you don't think about a younger man cause most of them want young women. they might try to get what money they can out of you. I know a older woman that she is a R.N. and she was financially independent, I say was cause she let this man of 36 yrs. for all her money. Look for a man older than yourself and you'll have better luck with him loving you for yourself and not what he can get out of you.. good luck and be careful.
2006-09-17 12:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eHarmony , you can control the search area size, making it as local or worldwide. They automatically match you with people who are like minded. Of course, a lot of "duds"will get through, but you will also find some gems. I signed on with them a couple of months back, and I think that I have found my honey. I wish you the best with your search, God only knows, it's not fun to be alone, and if you join up, I GUARANTEE that you will find your special someone! Peace
2006-09-17 12:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by rasputin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to think it is possible, because I am 40+ and looking for the same thing. I don't however you will find it at an agency, and it is becoming my experience on line all guys think you are here for "cyber-sex" I think it will happen by chance, wish me luck and good luck to you.
2006-09-17 12:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by malraene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...when you find the answer to that one please let me know!!! I'm 59 and live in Boston. My b/f of 5 years passed away last year and now that I've done all the grieving my body and mind could stand, I can't find a decent man anywhere. Everyone I've met is only looking for sex!!! I've tried dating agencies, singles sites on the internet and nothing has worked. Good Luck to you...and us!
2006-09-17 12:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,i don't think age really matters in a relationship,u're beautiful no matter how old you are,i am a 24yr married to a man of 52yrs, we've been married for five yrs now, and it is the best relationship i have ever had. so i say yes if there is some out there who knows a real woman's worth he be honoured to have you as his woman. GIVE IT A SHOT HONEY!
2006-09-17 12:45:56 · answer #11 · answered by dersertrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋