I am feeling scared and I am feeling really confused. It's been exactly 10 days since I heard from my boyfriend. He has been away on vacation in with his best friend, visiting their friend and he is not coming back until 25th September. I know that we kind of agreed that until he comes back, I leave him alone to think but I cannot help thinking that he might not call again? He has not sent me any message at all or email from his trip.It's been very hard at times not to hear from him. I have not made any contact with him even though I have moments where I feel like I would like to send him a small message just to ask how his holidays has been but I am afraid to do that as we had an argument before he left and he told me to leave him alone. Before he left I told him that he has to make decision about us and let me know.He told me that it's not the best way to help our situation by giving him ultimatumes. Is it normal that when guys go away together, they dont make any contact?
2006-09-17 11:49:29 · 6 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going through the same thing. But I did write my guy and it makes me look completely stupid.
But I had to relieve my anger. I feel that if he wants to be with me, he will be with me and if not, he will no my EXACT feelings.
it's okay to write him. He is trying to CONTROL you buy keeping out a carrot ONLY if you behave. He's so cruel and doesn't sound like the guy that you really want.
As cute or sweet or his good qualities that he might have, you will forget him but it will take time. You need to get TRULY TICKED OFF and never talk to his butt again.
If he is meant to be, then he will come to you and talk to you with more courtesy and respect. You have a right to contact him if you all have been in a relationship. That's his excuse to be wild and do what he wants to do.
I wouldn't take him back without him getting a STD test that comes back clear.
2006-09-17 12:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by nickiebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him and move on. He has not called or anything in ten days, therefore, sorry to say, consider yourself dumped. But look at the upside: you are free to live your life without all the additional problems of your so-called boyfriend
2006-09-17 18:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, this is one of life's least fun things. He's trying to ditch you. DO NOT respond to him, even if he sends you a message. Your next move might should be acting like you have life without his sorry butt. Nothing is more attractive than a girl that's interested but not THAT interested. Good luck.
2006-09-17 18:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did you agree to give him time to think? Have things been rocky in your relationship?
Even my horrible ex wrote me a few times and even called me while on a mission-esque trip to Nicaragua.
Sounds like its time for you two to break things off. Sorry, but you'll find someone new.
2006-09-17 18:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard...ewww this is hard. You are feeling pain from being treated badly. He may not be the right one for you because if he does it once, he'll do this again.
It's up to you to set boundaries and the better you establish those boundaries, you will find the right guy that will respect them.
2006-09-17 19:04:43 · answer #5 · answered by Pixel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have many answers to your question already - need not post it again. Go to the section called MYQ&A to view people's replies.
2006-09-17 18:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by ouisy_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋