now what should i do...i'm not sure if i'm going to be happy if i get married to "none virgin girl"..but the same time i want her to be pretty..please people tell me what you so think.. should i forget this or what?
2006-09-17 11:46:04 · 20 answers · asked by Mr Smith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marry somebody you LOVE, whether she is a virgin or not.
I'm still a virgin, and planning on staying one until I marry. But I am going to marry my future husband on my love for him, not his virgin status.
2006-09-17 11:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prettyness is more in the heart and the thoughts than in the physical look they might have. Some pretty girls are snobs. Some are not. You will be much happier if you choose a girl to marry who is a virgin. You will not be able to catch a sexually transmitted disease from her. (Women or men who have many sexual partners take a big risk of getting Aids, and many other diseases). That way you can explore sex the way it was meant to be done and that is between married people. The Bible says that women who are spiritual get praise for themselves and the man that has a woman like that would be glad. You don't have to worry about the person cheating on you if they honor marriage vows. Sometimes pretty women do and sometimes they don't. I have seen handsome men with plain looking women with their arms around each other in town and, likewise, I have seen beautiful women with a plain looking guy.
Physical beauty is only skin deep and will eventually fade away. Better to have a woman who will love you and be faithful to you for your whole life and marriage. I have one like that, and I am glad. We have been married for 34 years now and have two grown up kids. So, I think you should look for a virgin woman and one who loves you and marry her. She will be a good wife to you forever.
2006-09-17 11:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by fingerpicknboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a Virgin... Finding a woman who is might be hard but if you fall in love with someone for who they are not who they have done or haven't done then whats the difference. You can't pick out a virgin in a crowd of people and some girls make the mistake of not saving themselves only once.
Your heart will tell you what is right when it comes time. =)
Good Luck
2006-09-17 11:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by baby_thumper_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of pretty girls that are virgins if u want the girl u marry to be a virgin then u have to find the right girl not all pretty girls have had sex
2006-09-17 11:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Camera_Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stick to your principles regardless of what others are doing. What you are doing is admirable. There are pretty women who are still virgins but for the ones who are not many started out like you. They tried to stay virgins but they thought all the good looking guys were not virgins so they gave up not even knowing there were people like you out there. So just be patient and do not be swayed by your peers because your peers are idiots.
2006-09-17 11:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pretty shouldn't be that important to you. Why would you want to marry someone based even partially on something that shallow?
Also, whether or not she's a virgin really shouldn't matter that much. All that should matter is if you really love her. Trust me, she will always think it is best with you if you two really love one another. It's not like the other guy(s) are still in there.
2006-09-17 11:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it is great what you are doing..and it is not true that there are no pretty girls that are virgins...just because a girl is pretty does not make them slutty!!!there are all kinds of girls that believe in no sex until marriage!!i think that you should keep with it is a good thing!(hey look at jessica simpson..she was a virgin when she married nick and she is just about as pretty are you can get..it happens!)
2006-09-17 11:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by noseyroseysillywillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget it! Mrs. Right will come along. Believe it or not, there still are girls out there that are waiting for Mr.Right too. Now if you are turning 30 to 35 and still haven't found her, I would say you are being too picky! Congrats on that too! You should be proud and your future wife will be too!
2006-09-17 11:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by mag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should it matter????? ugly, pretty, virgin or non virgin, when ur in love ur in lve, all these things shouldnt matter, and u might not still be a virgin when u get married, so just take each day as it comes and dont be worrying if's and but's
2006-09-17 11:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by MissElection 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
under no circumstance should you marry a virgin. they are clumsy and unpracticed in the bedroom. you want someone who has some experience in satisfying her man. usually someone who's been with 40-50 guys will do, but don't forget the std testing!!!
2006-09-17 11:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by pinhed_1976 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋