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I've been out with a guy on three dates. He's always called me regularly, even after dates. We went out on Tuesday, the date went fine, he said that he would either call me, or I could call him. I took that to mean that he wanted me to perhaps call or email him.

So I emailed him on Thursday, and he has yet to write back or call me. And normally he usually responds within 2 days. So I'm wondering what's going on...especially after 3 dates. I figure if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have invested this much time and effort.

Thanks!

2006-09-17 11:40:24 · 12 answers · asked by x_filequeen 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

Probably nothing is going on. I know several people who don't check their e-mail every day and, in fact, do so only every week or so. Maybe that is the case. Why not call him and end all speculation??

Chow!!

2006-09-17 11:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0 0

this much time or effort? This may shock some of you but three dates which probably only last a few hours maybe a little more is not an effort, yeah it is if your date is picking his nose or too busy pointing out your flaws or something ridiculous..but if you are on a date with someone even remotely normal three dates is nothing....I'm sure you had sex with him to reward his awesome effort. Pathetic.

Yeah, anyway...leave him alone..you have emailed him so you have done your part, let him contact you.

2006-09-17 11:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

look...u know what's the 1st reason of breaking up....guessing....is he..isn't he..don't do that to give judgment to people..anyways in ur case... there r 3 possibilities and 3 solutions

1)he is sick or busy or anything that keeps him away...then u must ask for him and show him how agood person are u

2)he isn't interested...and i don't think that's possible....then u must face him and talk to the guy if u saw him looking all over him while talking to u...and trying to find anything to run away....just let him go to hill

3)he knew something about u that freaked him and made him go away...so u must talk this out with him and solve that

in 3 cases...just remmeber..when u r in arelation ship and u want to stay away of problems....never say perhaps....always make it SURE ....i wish u good luck :)

2006-09-17 11:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by doctor^love 2 · 0 0

It doesn't matter whether is your 10th dates. You have done your part so let him do his. He has probably valid reasons.

Investing time and effort after three dates is nothing if he wants to
look for greener grass.

2006-09-17 11:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0 0

he may have a good reason it aint like you own him after 3 dates . and 3 dates maybe he fig. you weren't right for him and its good it ended early instead of investing more feelings

2006-09-17 11:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by terri e 5 · 0 0

He could be busy or just not interested. Start looking at other guys, don't wait for him to call.

2006-09-17 11:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0 0

Call him because he may not have read his emails.
If he answers and acts like he is busy, leave him alone.
If it is voicemail, just tell him you were thinking about him and wanted to say 'hi'.
It's kinda like playing 'tag'. Make him 'it'. If he don't 'tag' back then move on.

2006-09-17 11:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe he's out of town or busy with work?

2006-09-17 11:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by wildflower 4 · 0 0

well if any thing didnt work out as much: just dump him because
it can get quite worse so my suggestion is not continue dating
that person !

2006-09-17 11:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

it doesnt mean anything except maybe hes busy

2006-09-17 11:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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