My bestfriend spent the night and her and i were playing around and she asked me, How do i know if i am gay? her and i both did not know the answer and i need help because i really think i am gay. when i had a boyfriend, him and i held hands and i did not like it, also when we hugged i did not like it. i just really need an answer right now.
2006-09-17 11:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Kellogs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not gay, im straight..but here is my opinion; u can feel when ur gay,its like u get these wierd feelings and u check out ppl just like u
2006-09-17 11:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mizz Latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, my 19 year old Grandson is Gay. He came out when he was 15 years old. I don't know how old you are?
I think that right now, you are very mixed up and you should seek help from a Group, if you have one, where you live, that deals with Gay/Lesbian/Transexual or Transgender people. They will be able to help you with any questions you need to ask, regarding
how you feel towards both men and women ? These people are
familiar with the feelings of people, who, so to speak, feel different
and are not sure ? I am sure they will be able to answer alot of the questions that you have, regarding your feelings, as they have helped millions of people. I just hope that you have a Group of this kind, where you live, that you can contact.and get some answers to your problem ?
2006-09-17 19:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Enid S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a young girl you may not be attracted to either sex yet. I doubt you are gay. Your post mentions nothing of being attracted to other women. An maybe you just did not like that guy you were holding hands with. Just because I do not like Barbara Striesand it does not mean I am gay.
2006-09-17 18:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to NOT jump into anything, either way. Give yourself some time to really THINK. Who do you feel attracted to? When you picture your future, do you see yourself in a traditional way? Do you get sexually excited by anyone at this point?
Don't push yourself for an answer now. Sounds like you are still young, and you really have to give yourself some time.
2006-09-17 18:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, If looking at a naked guy gives you a hard-on, then you are gay !! If not than the next time your female friend comes's to visit, just put her on the bed and f*ck her brains out ! And I guarantee you that she will not ask you "if you think you are gay" !!!
2006-09-17 18:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not mean your gay but you can be bisexual. i'm like that i dont like kissing men, being in relationships with them, and sometimes their voivce annoys me but i do like to sleep with them and thats about it, or unless they have money to give. But i would more perfer it from a woman. Have u ever noticed yourself looking at women in a way that you thought was weird? if you have then you can possibly be gay, i would say try hanging out with lesbians and see hoe u interact with them. If you feel like you dont wanna be there or your not having fun, then your not gay. But i can tell you that i had the best head from a female if that helps you decision.. Good luck
2006-09-17 18:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by tyramarie26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are. Or maybe your not gay just bi. Also do you get feelings when you look at girls? I think that you can answer this yourself.
2006-09-17 18:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
and just because you didn't like doing those things with that guy doesn't make you gay
it could be because doing those actions reminds you of bad memories(like sexual abuse) or you just weren't into him.
if you think you might be gay than experiment with it
although id call you bi curious
2006-09-17 18:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by dropped_skittles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would really do some soul searching as too me it would be a snap. maybe you didn't like the boyfriend is why he wasn't the right one. don't let your best friend steer you into it.
2006-09-17 18:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe only u know the answer
2006-09-17 18:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋