ok i really like this guy but my ex is his best friend. and i am afraid that my ex is telling the guy i like a bunch of stupid junk about me. i was gonna ask him out friday but whenever i got close my ex always took him to some other gurl. i got really pissed and threw a football at my ex's head. it hit him and everyone was clapping for me. my ex is kinda strange. so idk what to do?
2006-09-17 11:33:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will do you like him or are you trying to get back at your ex
2006-09-17 11:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first rule is never to mess with an ex's friend especially if they still hang together. First off your ex is gonna be a hater and they may be trying to play u. If u like the friend and he has potential and they way he treat u seems ginuine then all i can say is be careful. Guys play more games than girls so if your confused about the new guy's intention then play him like some football. Score, kick a field goal, win and on to defeat another team
2006-09-17 11:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by tyramarie26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex probably IS telling him tons of stuff about you- likely not truthful or flattering.... You may want to steer clear of this situation. If he's hanging around that much, you wouldn't really have an opportunity to build any kind of dating relationship with the new guy. And throwing a football at his head may have felt good, but it didn't LOOK good....
2006-09-17 11:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex wants to c u be misable, that is why he wants the best friend to talk to other girls. Go around the best friend when the ex isn't around, and make a move. The more the best friend begins to talk to you the more he will realize how much the ex was wrong about u.
2006-09-17 11:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by dcutegirl06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm engaged to my ex's former best friend. They are not former because of me--entirely--but they were best friends when I started dating my current.
Your ex sounds like a real jerk. (So is mine.) Just try to get his friend alone sometime--not in a stalker way, of course, but if you happen to see him after school of something, grab him before the friend has a chance.
You could always ask him out the way my fiance asked me--hand him a note and run away...haha!
2006-09-17 11:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People usually hang out together because they are alot like. The BF probably is very similar to your ex and you will be dating another kinda strange guy.
2006-09-17 11:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, is he your ex's very good friend or just so so? If he isn't his very good friend, he won't believe what he tells him abut you. But, even if he doesn't tell him anything or he doesn't belive what he say, you'll always be worried about it. Why try to put yourself in constant stress? Just move on and look for someone else. Best of luck!
2006-09-17 11:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for sure not. I easily have been interior the same sitituation for over 10 years! and that i'm not with him now. i admire him greater effective than the different guy that I easily have been with.it is to not overdue to be freinds lower back in case you the two can purely be associates till you prefer to waste a brilliant form of it sluggish on b.s. And purely undergo in concepts you broke up for a reason purely undergo in concepts that.
2016-12-18 12:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know there are a million guys in the world and you like your exs best friend why don't you all 3 appear on jerry springer i think that is the attraction for you hes you ex's best friend
2006-09-17 11:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what your ex says let this guy get to know you i am sure there is nothing wrong with u and this guy will see that so just ask him out and have fun dont leave this in the back of your mind as it can hurt your chances
2006-09-17 11:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by reddevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time don't share any very personal story with him.
If you new b/f is taking his side and not even talk with you is not worth any attention. Responsible people don't act like that. Get new one not try to keep stupid unmature .
2006-09-17 11:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋