please, why do women fake orgasm? I mean, why can't you tell us how you want it, so that us guys can be better lovers, some constructive criticism never hurts.
2006-09-17 11:31:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing worse than hurting a mans ego. Also faking one ensures the mens will follow and we can get it over with. I agree I tell my hubby how i like it but sometimes when i am just not in the mood i fake it and get it over with. SHHHH don't tell him
2006-09-17 11:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well most women are just trying not to hurt you guys by telling you that your not outstanding at sex
even though it still comes up when she's not greeing with you
but times are changing and alot of women are coming clean and telling you up front that they want to reach an orgasm just like how you get yours
i think that if a woman reaches an orgasm and seeing that your making some kind of effort that they will become much better love makers in the end
2006-09-17 18:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't want to disappoint a man in bed. They are afraid the man will never want them again.
If a woman tells a man what she really like to do and he still doesn't satisfy her, does it hurt if she fakes it to make him feel that he tried his best and succeeded?
I know some women will fake it to get things over and done with quickly, but not all of them.
2006-09-17 18:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not generalize "women".
Some men, handle it very well when you walk them to orgasm. Some can not handle the truth.
You are absolutely right constructive criticisms is okay but it only works with people like you. Open minded, sensitive and understanding.
2006-09-17 18:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried to maybe point him in the right direction before but he was continuly unable to make me orgasm...and this was hurting his cofidence that is for sure so thus I do in a way fake it. I tighten my muscles and he thinks that I did, even brags about it but I have never really told him other wise. To me it don't matter if I don't orgasm I have a good time regardless ;)
2006-09-17 18:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jessye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are insecure about telling the men what they want. It seems like society still considers the woman as people who don't enjoy sexuality. It made me upset that the book For Woman only expressed woman as not having much of sexual desires. THe women should be able to feel comfortable with discussing these things with their man without feeling dirty.
2006-09-18 12:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't want to hurt your feelings. But if you new what you were doing and paid more attention on her a less on what you want this might change. I've said this before it takes longer for a woman then a man. If you don't know read a book or look it up on the web.
2006-09-17 19:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women want you to feel like WOW i made her O
Other women just never get there.
If I faked it my husband would know trust me.....
It would be like you having relations with a woman who has a stretched out chacha and you not feeling a thing, therefor not getting anywhere and faking that you came just so she will get off of you ;)
2006-09-17 18:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by baby_thumper_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. They could not be attracted to the man and want to get it over with, or
2. They might want the man to feel like he has done his job and not humiliate him by not climaxing
Those are the only reasons I can think of, and I am a woman!
2006-09-17 18:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys don't handle criticism in that area well, and most women are embarrassed to admit they can't quite 'get there'. i have never had to fake it but if I did, I wouldn't. it cheats both people.
2006-09-17 18:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by advicemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋