so that he can have his own room and I can have my own room. He said that he wants us to share a bed but that we are both people that need space at times. I agree that at times, yes, I do need space and he definitely needs space at times. But something seems off. Has anyone done this?
2006-09-17 11:28:23 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Tee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is what old married couples do when they are fading away from each other but don't want the mess of a divorce. Dump him now before you get trapped in a new city with no friends around.
2006-09-17 11:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I talked about this when we were considering moving in together. However, it was primarily to keep peace in our families.
I do not necessarily think it's a bad thing. My fiance and I are planning on having individual offices in our house once we can afford one. However, I do not think that either of "your rooms" should be a bedroom. The bedroom should be the one you share, and the other rooms should be where you hang out when you need alone time or time to work.(Like individual offices.) It would be unfair for one of you to get the bedroom, especially since you could kick the other one out during a fight.
2006-09-17 18:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i moved in with my boyfriend and we shared a room but he huse is big so we actually have are own rooms cause we both had beds and we just put them both in rooms. bt the only time we sleep apart is when where fighting or one of us comes home real late and doesn want to wake the other ( cause of are work and school schedules sometimes comflict) but thats not very often.
if it wasnt for the moving to another state part i would say try it you can always move out and dont put your name on the lease. but since he is moving i would say dont do it unless their is a definet commitment. actually i jus wouldn do it it seems really weird.
2006-09-17 18:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same man you were worried about leaving for a business trip and rekindling an old flame while out of town?
2006-09-17 18:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to live together u must get use to eachothers bad habits try that out for awhile then try to use only one room see how it works out this is not uncommon but is away to learn from eachother in your own respected space
2006-09-17 18:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by reddevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never done this but I think you should definitely talk to your boyfriend about your feelings.
2006-09-17 18:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to agree with Panthereem this can't be a good sign!
2006-09-17 18:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bo V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 BDRMS: ARE GOOD BUT IF HE WANTS TO SHARE A BED W / YOU THEN GO BYE AN XTRA BED FOR THAT SPARE ROOM SO IF HE NEEDS IT WILL ALREADY BE THERE, BUT MAYBE HES THINKING ON HAVING A BABY SOON... GOOD LUCK..
2006-09-17 18:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by mike_m50501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋