How can you tell if a girl really likes you or if she just think she loves you but she is really just into you for shallow reasons.. like sex.. or physical stuff
My girlfriends best friend told me that my girlfriend wanted to meet me just because she heard things about me being with another girl I dated before her. But I don't know if this is true because my girlfriends best friend acts like she is flriting with me and I get the impression she is trying to break us up.
Part of me believes it because my girlfriend is very sexual.. everything is about sex and physical suff.... but my other girlfriends have been like that too but not as much. But part of me doesn't believe it because she seems to be so sweet and nice.. but I have heard other things about her around school too.. but I don't know if that is just because girls are jeaolous. I have heard rumors about me that isn't true either.
Is there any way I can find out for sure how she really feels about me?
2006-09-17 11:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lookout for your girl's so called "Best Friend". She may be what's called a blocker; someone who's out to destroy the good things in your relationship.She may be after you base on what she's heard about you. Ever thought of that? Do not tell your girlfriend about this because if she goes back to confront her girlfriend she may say you were the one who put the moves on her. Here's how you find out if your girl is into you. When you're out together, does she stand close to you, touch your arm often, especially when you say something funny? When you ask her out, does she accept the date and show up on time? If she does not accept, does she offer a different specific day and time? You should be kissing her good night at the end of every date. Does she gladly kiss you? If she turns away, that's a sign that she's losing interest. Also, see her less often,(maximun 3 times a week) and see if she calls to ask why you're seeing her less. When she does, ask her when she'd like to see you again, and playfully ask, Do you by any chance miss me?Her answer and tone of voice should say a lot about how she feels. Keep your hand off her and let her initiate touching. The idea is to have her coming at you. When a girl has strong feelings towards you, she has no problem chasing after you, in fact she can't help it! I hope that was helpful. Go on www.doclove.com for more. Be sure to listen to the free archived radio shows and if you're 18, order the dating dictionnary. Good luck!
2006-09-17 11:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I myself love a guy for more than just physical reasons, my face lights up when I see him, when he phones or texts me, my heart starts beating fast. I brag to my friends about him. I would not care where I was, just as long as I was with him. Stuff like that.
2006-09-17 11:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop having sex with her for a while. or slow down the practice of, which i am sure you dont want to do. Set her up somehow to see if she will spill information about loving you. and since you are in school and i presume under 18, USE CONDOMS.
2006-09-17 11:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by bashfullyours1973 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the relationship and don't listen to jealous gossip. Tell the Best Friend, you don't care why your GF starting dating you, because you care about her more then just as a lover.
2006-09-17 11:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, pay close attention how she acts, and what she does. That should be able to tell you. But don't let lust take over u either.
2006-09-17 11:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look it here your an f..ken guy stop actin like a p...y a real guy would not give an f about love try tappin all them hoochies
2006-09-18 11:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can tell by how she looks at you, and if she never wants to be apart from you.
2006-09-17 11:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by J13891 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say follow your heart and not your private parts.
2006-09-17 11:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by victoria w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you will feel it in your heart, also, how does she act towards you when your not having sex.
2006-09-17 11:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her
2006-09-17 11:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋