i had a crush on a boy in my class. But my friend started to date him,then I got over it. Well she broke up with yesterday now I'm starting to like him and I think he likes me to should i go out with him? I know it's not a right thing to do but please give me results!!!
2006-09-17 11:08:33 · 12 answers · asked by sportygirl436 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, unless you don't want to be friends with her anymore. Doing this will cause you to wear a bad label for a long time. Find another young man to go with dear...
2006-09-17 11:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave you that common sense so use it...if you know it is wrong, then absolutely dont do it. Unless of course, you think this guy is the marrying type. You are probably too young to think about that. Friends are more significant and last longer than boyfriends. How long did he stay w/ your friend???...well, he would probably be w/ you just as long until he finds someone else. That is how guys are and it sux. Do what you know is right.
2006-09-17 18:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by MelBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should, only because he was dating someone you consider a friend. If I were you I would sit down and talk to him and make sure he likes me back and figure out a way to TELL MY FRIEND before I do anything with this guy. Friendships are important. Value them over everything else.
2006-09-17 18:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sexxyinanothersex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she knew you had a cruch on him and started dating him anyway than by all means go for it. it would be no different than what she did to you. BUT if she never knew you had a crush on him before she hooked up with him than yu could ask her if shewould mind or jus be friends with him and hang out for a couple months or so until she has someone else. but either way you should wait a couple weeks or your just re bound and could get dumped anyway and maybe their was a reason she broke up with him.
2006-09-17 18:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if your friend broke up with him, she might feel very hurt if you were to start dating him. I would say wait for awhile and then talk to her about it, like after she has another boyfriend at least.
2006-09-17 18:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
she didn't want him and now you do so go for it
if she is your friend she will be happy for you sience she left him and your interested
if she gets angry tell her that when you liked him in the beginning you gave her your blessings because she was your friend and you expect her to do the same
she will get over it with time
and i think she will become ok with it
you guys will still be friends but dont think that you will be as close as you both once were
but who knows you guys may work out an agreement and be ok with the whole situation and you will be able to go to her with your problems once again
go for it
2006-09-17 18:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would ask my friend if she would mind if I dated him and if she wasn't then don't. No guy is worth losing a friendship over.
2006-09-17 18:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jesuslovesyou! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you know that your friend will understand then go for it!
And yes, it is the right thing to do!!!
2006-09-17 18:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while since they just broke up. You don't want her accusing you of breaking them up.
2006-09-17 18:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my friend dated this guy after i dated him but she asked me if it's ok first and i was fine with it talk with your friend about it and she if she alirght with that but it may take some time for her to get over him
2006-09-17 18:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋