I have a problem with boys (like normal). As soon as i see a boy and talk to him i start to like him way too fast. i get soo attached so quickly and i always end up getting hurt. i need advice on how to not get attached so easily and how to just stay cool when i meet a boy. please give good advice!
2006-09-17 11:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by Hazel eyed beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same problem with girls I'm afraid. It's tough. I think we just need to work on our self-esteems so we feel we don't need the love of just about "anyone" to fill that emotional void. I think we should direct 90% of our emotions towards loving ourselves and just leave ten percent for somebody who really deserves that 10% and is prepared to give us their ten percent in return.
We know that we aren't attracted to people who are offering too much of their stock of love. They scare us off and we scare others off if we do the same.
2006-09-17 11:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set different priorities fir yourself. That way you can think of whether or not a guy fits in. Hopefully this helps.
2006-09-17 18:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bugs Malone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a self issue, you have to learn to like yourself more and learn to think more highly of yourself. i used to do this all the time.im getting better with it but it takes a lot of time.
2006-09-17 18:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by thepainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have love in your heart . thats ok cause anybody could be the right somebody.
2006-09-17 18:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by spades c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋