Okay...I'm here to say that if you are a parent you need to scold and beat your child when they do something wrong. I'm not saying like harshly, just enough to teach the child. I'm seeing kids with bad attitudes and I can tell that they weren't ever beaten or yelled at. You need to disipline your child! Or you'll end up on one of the episodes of "Super Nanny".
It's not child abuse, its disiplining
Anyone agree?
2006-09-17 11:05:29 · 7 answers · asked by PhizZingFree 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Oh yes and I have a son...I dont exactly hurt and break the kid...I love him, I'm just showing him the consequences...by the way I don't want him to be some dumb@$$ when he grows up
2006-09-17 11:18:03 · update #1
Yeah, I'm all for child discipline. Sometimes a child does need to be smacked just to make the point that you are in charge and the child simply has to listen.
But of course, as somebody said, it's important not to mix up the two. See, kids grow up fast and before you know it they become teenagers and adults. As they get older child discipline must also get toned down more and more because they need to learn to negotiate, and of course that doesn't work by beating or yelling. When the girl gets her period and the boy grows a beard, you know that spanking should've ceased from awhile ago. So what I suggest is to take into account what stage that child is at and always consult books and audio material that give you perspective. Start young and don't leave any room to make bad history with your children.
Also a wise proverb says "a child is never good at listening to what you have to say but never fails to do what he sees you doing." Be sure to treat the child's other parent with respect and let the child see you resolve conflict in a mature fashion.
2006-09-17 11:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mizz G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No...A child up to 5 you spank or hit there hands due to they don't know any better.But after 5 they can talk and understand things.So this is when you put them in the corner when they do wrong.Or take something away from them.Like not letting them go to someones birthday party cuz they were bad. Things like that. I did it with my child and he is 18.He has a job and is also going to college...Beaten doesn't do anything but make an angry child. I know I was spanked till I was 15...
2006-09-17 11:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well there is a whole lot of difference between beating and disciplining - but I think I know what you mean. There needs to be consequences for your actions. Children need limits and are more stable and secure when they have them - or have consequences when they step out of them. Consistency is the key.
2006-09-17 11:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by judyjudyjudy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Please tell me exactly how many children you have raised. And if you honestly mean to not beat them harshly, then why would you even use the word "beat"? A spanking and a beating are two total separate things....GET A CLUE!
2006-09-17 11:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by pamela_8399 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
exactly many people get them mixed up
2006-09-17 11:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i do agree with you.
2006-09-17 11:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Simmy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THANK YOU, i agree
2006-09-17 11:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by kountry_kandi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋