2006-09-17 11:03:46 · 31 answers · asked by pete 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well money isnt everything but if this guy is being a dead beat get rid of him. but if you love him and he is working and trying then by all means keep him. money is a tricky situation. Dont let him take advantage of you. its not worth it you'll just be unhappy in the long run. if its that important to you and the guy isnt a dead beat work something out. if he is a dead beat like i said before dump his *** immediately!
2006-09-17 11:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by jancegreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you providing funding for your life together?. Are you sexist?. Do you see a relationship as a partnership? Do you expect to be treated as an equal?. Perhaps you should be able to tick yes to all these boxes before asking this question.
2006-09-17 18:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it depends on if you like him or love him. Just cuz he doesn't make money doesn't mean that he can't be capable of providing in different ways. Also, if you were to be in a bind... alot of times he would help more. How old is he. I think that men will grow up just like women. I think that we women need to give men some credit. Do you think that Bill Gates was cool and made lots of money in his basement. THey just need to be encouraged. If you really like him. Support him and let him know what your thinking. He has the right to know that your thinking about dumping him for that reason. Maybe he'll change his tune.
2006-09-17 18:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be living with a guy you can just "break-up with." You shouldn't pick a guy with the character of a mooch in the first place. Yes, it seems that you made some poor choices. Break up. Find someone with good work ethics and character and marry him.
2006-09-17 18:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are some kind of gold-digging ho you would. If you arent married then it should all be voluntary, and pretty close to 50-50, if you are married then it should be something that has been discussed, if you are a stay at home mom and he works, then yes he would be expected to provide at least the necessiities.
2006-09-17 18:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Men create problems if they're not contributing in some way. So he better cook, clean, wash, sew, make stuff and sell it on eBay, whatever to help keep the home fires burning, or he needs to be out of the picture.
2006-09-17 18:05:42 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. you should both be saving for your life together its not just one persons responsibility. but maybe he isn't planing on being with you forever or he isn't sure yet. you should probably find out if you guys even want the same thing in life before you start saving. and if your young its kinda your on your own hing until you get engaged or maybe live together
2006-09-17 18:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If he is out of a job, short term, but you can tell he's trying really hard to find one, then help out if you can. If he is not contributing and not working towards being able to contribute, ditch him. Life's hard enough without someone mooching from you.
2006-09-17 18:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Is he a freeloader that has never worked - then yes. Is he the type of person that feels what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine - then yes. Is he a hard working guy that just got laid off and is out looking hard to find a job - then no.
2006-09-17 18:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should be helping each other BUT...In my opinion it is mainly the guys job to do the paying and he should have a car. He shouldn't rely on the girl for everything. It should be half and half.
2006-09-17 18:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋