I have a boyfriend, we used to hang out alot until he go into his band, now i feel like i need to do something, but i can't cause i have strich parents I feel attach to him what shoud I do? How can I stop being attached to him?
2006-09-17 10:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by LadyRose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you that you recognized that you might be a little too dependant on your bf. He found something to do, and you have a void to fill. Great. Sit down and remember the times you said, "if I had the time, I would do...." Then, get up and go do it. Get into art, Tae Kwan Do, Tai Chi, singing, writing, whatever appeals to you. Now is your chance!!
Also, while you've been so close to the bf, did your female friendships suffer? If so, make certain that you spend some more time with your extra special great friends, because these are the people who will love you for life... just because you are you. You can't take gold for those relationships, truly!!
Now is the time to be good to yourself, develop your own interests and enjoy your life standing on your own two feet. Then, when the bf has more time, you won't be lost in the relationship again. This will have the wonderful result of gaining your bf's respect for you as a separate person who can stand on her own and not lean on him all the time. This makes for a more stable relationship. You've got a win/win situation here, girl, ENJOY!!! :)
2006-09-17 11:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had some human beings like this even as i change into in college. interior the first year it change right into a lady, who like you describe, change into merely obsessed. I took her to a nightclub (being powerful) and he or she actually pronounced me round like a puppy canines and doesn't depart me on my own even as i change into talking to human beings, even although her personal pals were with her. It got here to the perfect straw with me even as she doesn't quit texting, so , even if it change into cruel I merely distanced myself from her, stopped sitting with her in college and sat with others, surpassed over her texts and did not reply. i change into nonetheless civil, yet when she tried to come back in, I made confident i change into sparkling that it change into no longer likely to ensue. And especially quickly she merely left me on my own. when I moved to my next uni, I picked up yet another 'buddy' and he change into worse yet i tried to regulate my instructions and back made the point of sitting with different individuals and under no circumstances acknowledging him. yet I felt undesirable! So all started speaking back.. which grew to change into out to be the worst ingredient i'd have performed. i finished up leaving Uni because he actually stalked me and that i felt that uncomfortable I merely had to flee. If in worry-free words i'd have performed what I did the first time, I probable would have a level through now. So my suggestion is to positioned YOU first, no-body else. Your happiness comes first and be confident and under no circumstances sense undesirable because those human beings are stated as Psychic Vampires and they make you depressing
2016-10-16 01:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun Ive been having the same problem. What happened with was that she cheated on me. So I'm leaveing her for another gurl in another province.
2006-09-17 11:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
glue your legs together then he won't want you
2006-09-17 11:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe tell him... "its over." and explain to him why.
2006-09-17 10:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by HUSTLiN' Babii 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋