2006-09-17 10:44:15 · 20 answers · asked by jimmytesco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no good answer for this question. Sometimes people fall out of love with the person they are with. Sometimes they are more attracted to another person and think that life would be better with them. Sometimes the person gets bored with the relationship they are in and don't see it going anywhere and they want to be excited again and full of life. I have never cheated on a girl but have been cheated on twice and both times it was because they thought the other person was cuter. They admitted that our relationship was great, sex was great, I was very loving and affectionate, but they thought life would be better with the other person. Both times, it turned out it wasn't and they wanted to come back with me but I said no because they cheated on me and how could I ever trust them again.
2006-09-17 10:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lord Draven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess because one of the other gets bored and they want to try something else that will kill their boredom and sometimes the more the relationship gets longer, the excitement is getting less and the other person starts looking for some excitement with someone else. But its not right to do that, not fair to the other. At least if the other partner is thinking about cheating on their partner... just have a guts to tell her/him that you aren't happy anymore in your relationship and discuss whats the problem rather than looking for some excuses to cheat. I hate cheaters!
2006-09-17 13:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by asian_gal_from_socal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat because it's very hard to be with the same person forever. It always seems fresh and exciting to be with someone new. For some people cheating never enters their minds but for others it's a preoccupation. While cheating in a monogamous relationship is wrong, it doen't always mean that the person who cheated doesn't love you. It does signal some sort of deeper problem within the relationship though.
2006-09-17 10:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by jerry o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are getting a little tired of the partner. but its still wrong. try to keep long term relationships exciting, fresh, and deep for you and your partner then there's a less of a chance that your partner will cheat.
2006-09-17 10:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boredom. Same old routine night after night. Foreplay for 10 mins, 5mins each side, same routine, blah, blah, blah..
What you need to do is add excitement! Doesn't matter what. To begin with. Try role play, he's the window cleaner coming to get clean water for his bucket, sees a lonely housewife and just takes her!..really doesn't matter what. Try dressing up. Try another position. Try 10mins each side. Do something to spice up the bedroom or you will get bored of you're sex life. Quickly!
But, that is never a reason to stray or have affairs. Never.
Try talking to one another to see if there is something you could try to put 'something' back.
Good luck.
2006-09-17 10:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long term partner has a secret not everyone can guarantee that his/her love is real.there is always something missing in any long term relationship, or it cant be something perfect, with time each partner need to discover that part. why everyone feel from time to time that he/she want to make sure from his feeling about himself and others, routine can be broke, but love not been known yet. because faith come from love and life experience.
2006-09-17 11:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by kiko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its long term, they are probably really in love or really bored and dont know how to end it
if they are bored, they might just cheat as a solution to end their relationship because their gf or bf will eventuall find out and do the actual breaking up
they always find out
in the end that person is with whoever he or she wants to be with i guess
i myself would never cheat though
2006-09-17 10:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dancerette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work at relationships its hard work and sometimes one does tempted for various reasons but also because its easier these days to do so as people dont care whether you are in a relationship or married they dont take commitment seriously enough
2006-09-17 10:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had cheated before, on my first spouse. i did not sense appropriate to her any extra, fell out of love which includes her. Later i realized i wanted out of the courting yet did not have the balls to end it, so I compelled her to do it. in spite of the undeniable fact that after i realized how infantile and immature it develop into as well as hurtful. in case you recognize your spouse, yet do not love them any extra, then leave. dishonest would not do anybody any sturdy contained in the longer time period and easily satisfies couple of minutes period lusts. it really is a really egocentric act
2016-11-27 20:34:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they get bored and frustrated with their long term partners
2006-09-17 11:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋