i want to go and work in spain am 19 years old my girlfriend wont come with me i cant choose its just bar work i want to do, you know getting drunk and having a good time with my mates lol
2006-09-17 10:43:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are still young - sow your oats so to speak have your fun before settling down otherwise you will regret it - if she prefers she can always go there for a holiday - shes young too
2006-09-17 10:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Spain! If you skip the chance then you may hold it against her for the rest of the relationship, anyway. Plus, I mean, you're 19....what's the chance that you'll really be together when you're 75? Plus, if you were really head-over-heels and once-in-a-lifetime in love with her then you wouldn't be thinking of breaking up with her anyway.
Even so, breaking up is hard. But you need to live your life, hang with your mates, and be 19! (And so does she....)
2006-09-17 17:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by harpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once mate and there are plenty of fish in the sea....... I know you don't want fish but the the bait is there for you and if she does not want a bite........ thats cool.
Go for it, why not. If it does not work, you'll come back and if there is something more there, she'll be waiting for you and you'll want her.
Have fun, its what you should do when your 19
2006-09-17 17:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 19.... go and have fun with your mates!
2006-09-17 17:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie29uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what u r giving up here, think about your relationship carefully. Do u have a future with this girl? If u think u do then stay and if not then go. But please think wisely.
All the best in your choice. xx
2006-09-17 17:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by sexylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you dont really want a girlfriend here its obviously cramping your adolecent style.
2006-09-17 17:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only get 1 shot at life so if thats what you want to do then go for it.
2006-09-17 17:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by kezz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.have fun and make the most of life while you are still young
2006-09-17 17:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by steveo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go if she misses u she will follow u
2006-09-17 17:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say you already made up your mind...just time for you to follow through ...and accept what that means
2006-09-17 17:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋