Do you think there are certain situations that even though its the worst thing you can do in a relationship, that a person can be driven to cheat? Like being ignored constantly and not listening when I tell him how I feel. Or am I just a terrible person??
2006-09-17 10:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by youdontknowme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! If he ignores you constantly why not go out with some one that will enjoy doing things an listening to you. If you think it bad now he will get worse if you marry him.
2006-09-17 11:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a terrible person. I don't think it's acceptable in any circumstance to cheat though. If you are feeling ignored by your partner and you aren't able to openly communicate with him, then I think the relationship needs to be ended.
2006-09-17 17:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like it was already over. Being ignored constantly and not listening whenyou tell him how I feel is the silent way saying "f#ck off. He's the terrible person, i would have like to be you partner in crime. i would be proud to be you man, and have no concerns of you cheating on me.
2006-09-17 17:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by MASQUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating no matter how you cut it! What goes around does come around! Be a little more bold and honest -if you want a different relationship....take the time to be true to yourself and your mate!
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2006-09-17 17:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that you are terrible. He has to give too....and listen. Just think about what you really want.
2006-09-17 17:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't a terrible person, you just made a mistake. maybe if youre honest with your significant other, and explain your side, they'll realize how they've been treating you and it'll all get better. if you can't resolve it, then maybe it just wasn't meant to be.
2006-09-17 17:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you terrible, but if you feel as if you have to cheat, then maybe its time to end your relationship
2006-09-17 17:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Classic Couture 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him if he's not listening cheating just makes things worst...but who am i to judge...people do things for all types of reasons...i've learned my lesson
2006-09-17 17:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i male and i ended up cheating cos my gf i lived with just wasnt into physical stuff anymore god know y and i wasntgetting what i needed just holding and affection!
2006-09-17 17:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by pete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry,you just did the wrong thing, a relationship is build on trust,once it's broken,it will never be the same way again!good luck!
2006-09-17 17:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by jose_valle76 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋