i really wana know what to expect on a 1st date with most boys.
2006-09-17 10:42:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares what THEY want?
Decide how far YOU want to go, and only go there!
I say first base is good enough. Some guys will push to home plate if you let them--but you'll never see them again.
2006-09-17 10:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, it depends on the guy. I know some guys that go all the way on the first date, or at least try too. Myself personally, I would go with a simple kiss at the end of the night after walking the girl to her door. Possibly holding hands throughout the date, but it is a first date, so that tends to be pushing it sometimes. I know girls that if a guy tries to hold her hand on the first date, they think he is possessive and thus turns the girl off.
2006-09-17 10:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Draven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them will try ath more...That is how u r going to differ man in life the one that want to put u into bed from the 1st date are not worth and the other one gentlmen will respect u till u'll be ready that type of guys are the one u ve been looking for
2006-09-17 10:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should let them go past more then holding your hand, and giving you a hug at the end of the date. It doesn't matter what MOST boys want, the first date your just getting to know him, you don't want to go to far.
2006-09-17 10:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Needstoknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give him anything. Make him feel that you are very interested and just tease him. End the date with him wanting more. When the second date comes around give in to that kiss. Take control and play the game. Its most fun!
2006-09-17 11:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by MelBelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really up to you as to how far you want to go. Some guys want to go all the way on the first date and if you want to that is certainly your prerogative. But do not set your standards according to what most boys expect. Set your standards according to what is right for you.
2006-09-17 10:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy... but the most u should is kiss.... guys would love to take it as far as they could... but then would they respect you and still have anything to look forward to in the long run... First date is to get to know if u want to see more... soft gentle kiss if ur interested... if unsure... give a hug ...maybe a peck... not at all, shake hand, half hug nice to meet you... and if they were a total jirk... just a nod/smile saying laterz
2006-09-17 10:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as they can, you set the speed and direction the date should go. And if he does try anything you're not ready for, let him know. If he's a good guy, he'll understand. If he's a gentleman, he wouldn't of tried it in the first place.
2006-09-17 10:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by Hey You! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy a good chat with a girl and by the end of the night, I don`t expect anything, a kiss would be the start of anything.
2006-09-17 10:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said " boys "
Don`t expect much respect ,dating, when you are a teen isn`t about love ,it is about SCORING.
You can expect a lot of trying to get a home run !!!!.
Young ladies want kissing ,hugging and feelings with their dates .
]Boys want to go all the way ...........
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2006-09-17 10:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋