should i do it?

Question

i really cant see myself in savign my virginity. im like a guy magnet every guy likes me but i got a boy friend that means the world to me and i want to give it up to him we've been together for 6 months and i think imready im only 13 i know thats younge but i want to do this so dont tell em wronge plz.

Answer 1

Here is the thing, sex is very personal. I know you feel like you want to have sex, but at your age a lot of it is hormones. My sugestion to you is, give it some time. Instead of having sex, fool around, oral sex is fine, just make sure you are ready for that, and this guy is really a good person. Give it another six months or so, and if you still feel the same way, then talk to him about it, and make sure you both want the same thing. The first time is special, and you don't want to throw that away. A major thing to consider also is the confidentiallity, you must make sure you can trust this guy, at your age, if the word was to get out, you would get a reputation, and that will follow you all the way to senior year. If it is something you really want to do, i will not tell you not to, but don't rush into it. If he is really right for you, he will wait untill you know for sure its what you want. And if you do decide it is right, be safe about it.

Answer 2

Don't do it. You will regret it. 13 is wayyyyy too young!
I am not saying this because I think you don't know how you feel. I am sure you really have strong feelings for this boy, but trust me, you should not do it.
Think of all of the guys you will meet and date over the next 10/15 years. Think of the guy you will marry. Do you want to get married and have the memory in your head of doing it with some boy you don't even know anymore way back when you were 13? Think about the future and how you will feel when you look back on it.

Answer 3

13 is very young to be considering having sex. You should wait until you are older to make those decisions. I know that looking back, I should have waited longer than I did to have sex. You can never go back to just holding hands. So If you decide that you don't want it after you have already had sex, you either will not be able to, or will have to find another boyfriend. Maybe you should consider other, safer options than having intercourse. Kissing is a good start.
Just my opinion.

Answer 4

Giving up your virginity to someone who has not committed his life to you? So who will you give up your used body to next? And what happens when you find Mr. Right and he wants to marry a virgin because he is one also? (Yes, they do exist) Some guys were brought up to respect a woman.
Remember, used cars always need repairs.
I won't tell you it is wrong, you already know that.

Answer 5

Sorry. But you are wrong.

Anyone who wants to have sex just to get that virginity thing out of the way shouldn't have sex.

And anyone who's asking about it online shouldn't either.

Nobody says you have to save your virginity but you don't have to completely toss in the garbage either.

Answer 6

Read up on STD's then talk to your parents about you decision to have sex at 13. You say "don't tell me I'm wrong".....so if you are looking for someone to condone your behavior you'd better keep looking.
13 years old is still a child...

Answer 7

I have a girl that is 13 to I would never even think her having sex when she is still a baby talk to your perents

Answer 8

want to lose it at 13 grow up then lose it not now you're too young

Answer 9

you shouldn't "do it" because it will affect you and maybe your boyfriend