my boyfriend and i have been together for about 2 months, and i love him soo much, but he's told me that he doesn't think we'll be together forever. i don't want to face reality, i just want him to think that there might be a possibility that we can make it...but anyway, i cry whenever i think about losing him, and he feels guilty about it. he thinks he treats me badly, but i don't see it...now, he wants to spend less time together, in hopes that the more he misses me, the more likely he is to be sweeter to me. do you think that will help? i miss him sooo much. i can't stand being apart.
2006-09-17 10:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety, if he doesn't think yo uwill be together forever, take a break. Go your seperate way for awhile and see what happens. You can't force anything on anybody. You need to be strong. He knows that he has you in his hand and he can do what he wants. You need to gain control back and make him miss you. Go out with friends and have fun and see what happens.
2006-09-17 10:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start looking towards a life without him. Anytime a man tells you he thinks he treats you badly, then TRUST him that he is. He's probably already with another woman and it sounds as if he's only days from breaking up with you. He just feels guilty about wanting to break up and is trying to let you down easy by saying he wants to "spend less time together in the "hopes" that he misses you and wants to see you more". Sweetie, come on. I know it hurts but don't be naive, save yourself further heartache and break it off with him first.
2006-09-17 17:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every man hopes ant thinks that he found the unique lady in the world as worthy as diamons when he meet a woman at first, after a while begin to know few about her he gets disappointed and then he wants to spend less time with that woman!
men are childish, everytime you have to make ready a candied apple!
2006-09-17 17:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why to force things?????just be together every time you want.Let the feelings to float in the air.If one day comes that moment when you two will be bored, it will happen naturally, but then you two will not regret that you missed the time, like this -apart.Use the time with him as much as possible.Best wishes.Just don't make plans for the future, live for the present.Everything that is yours will come :)
2006-09-17 17:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya that Life, Love and the Persuit of Happiness is crap
2006-09-17 18:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Adam K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months?
And you are in love and can't see that he doesn't want to be smothered?
He is not ready for the commitment you want.
You will only get hurt. And if you think you hurt now, then you are way too young.
2006-09-17 17:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ther is a saaying,"If you love something set it free. If it returns it is yours. If not it never was".He sounds like he is not commited to the relationship as you are. Get busy in other acitvities to keep your mind busy. It'll hurt a while, I'sorry, let him go.Grandma
2006-09-17 17:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hint.. he told you he doesn't think you will be together forever, he is not there for you much now. get the hint yet....
2006-09-17 17:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be a little colder to him .. see how he reacts 2 it
2006-09-17 17:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋