i had a bf and we were together for 6 months and he brokeup with me this past july and well he called and last night he asked if i wanted to get back togehter with him and i said yes and my siters and other people telling me i am stupid for taking him back and they are saying that he will brerak up with me again and it just hurts me when i here them say all these thing me and him are both seventeen so please tell me what should i do?????????????????please i am jsut sick of them telling me all these things
2006-09-17 10:19:51 · 14 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is too much drama!
I think you should study your schoolwork or find a job or volunteer at the soup kitchen.
Take up knitting or get a puppy.
Men are a royal pain if you give them too much of yourself. Get busy and build a life.
2006-09-17 10:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..is it the first time he's called you since you broke up?? If so, you did the wrong thing. The reason for this is now he knows no matter what happens, you'll take him back. You need to be strong and tell him that you can't just come back into my life whenever you want and expect things to be the same. Did you ask him why he broke up with you and why he wants you back now? You need to know these things because I am with your sisters that he will break up with you again, because he knows you'll always be there.
2006-09-17 17:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband when I was 17 but almost 18. Now I've been married over a year and happy. My parents didn't like me being with this guy so much that they didn't go to my wedding. You know yourself better than anyone and you know this guy pretty well. Search deep down and let yourself know...do you really trust him? If so then go for it. People make mistakes and maybe this is the one guy for you. Good luck either way.
2006-09-17 17:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weal it hard for me to say because at 17 teen boys can be cruel i have a 17 year old son and he,s all about the more notches he gets on his belt or phone number he can get and my daughter boy friend is 17 and she is 16 and completely in love with this guy she went and got a tattoo of his name on her arm then he had the nerve to tell her he,s a mack now he has 2 girls with his brand on them that hurt her feelings. so boy at 17 are not the same at 20 or 21 they will have forgotten your name.
2006-09-17 17:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wory, others shouldn't tell you as stupid but you are young and tender to get hurt by external forces. You can have him my advice is don't put much hope on this relationship but use this oportunity to learn people and relationships. DON'T GIVE ANY CHANCE FOR HIM. good luck
2006-09-17 17:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a guy who's girlfriend has broken up with him like 4 times. you have to be able to judge if his actions are genuine or not. if you truly believe that he loves you and he really wants to be with you, then give him another chance, but if you have a gut feeling that he's going to hurt you again, don't give him the opportunity...you can find better than a serial-heartbreaker.
2006-09-17 17:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are 17---just ride the tide! You're way too young to get married or anything....life should be about fun dates with LOTS of boys. Go out with him sometimes, then say no sometimes. He can't break your heart if you don't HAND it to him!
2006-09-17 17:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that they are telling you the truth.You had already gotten over him once.Don't go through the same thing over again.I really wish you the best
2006-09-17 17:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by bholder_23024 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u really love this guy ? well i think u should give him another chance is u like him but if u think he will do it again then tell him i cant i dont wanna get hurt again by you but its up to u
do u love him?
or not?
2006-09-17 17:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Luv Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you trust the most bf or your sister. if he brke your heart really bad do yourself a favor dont go out with him.
2006-09-17 17:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by jm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋