do u believe in it?...i do and i don't. i recently did fall in love..but its in a sticky situation...but i want to marry this man...its crazy... and i'm young so thats another problem...i was in love before so i kno wat love is. And at 18, i think i'm ready to be in love one more time. is it wrong to fall for someone so fast?
2006-09-17 10:19:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the sticky situation is that he has a son...and he's not with the baby's mother anymore.
2006-09-17 10:51:55 · update #1
I fell in love at first sight aged 15, went around the world a bit and married him at 23. We've been married 10 years this year.
2006-09-17 10:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight...is so great. It is exciting and breathless and wonderful. And you also need to take some time to explore it all before you make any decisions beyond enjoying it. If it's a sticky situation because he has a wife/kids please walk away. You really don't want to break up a family. That is no way to start a life together. In the long run you will regret it.
Your right you are young....I know you have probably heard this a million times before, but you will do alot of growing and changing between the ages of 18 & 21 so don't be in a hurry to settle down. Make sure you take your time...time is on your side,
I can't even imagine where I would be if I had married the guy I was in love with when I was 18....I didn't meet my husband unitl I was 25...and we have been together 18+years now. Seem's like a long time doesn't it? But when I look at my girls it seems like only a moment.
It sounds like you have alot of soul seaching to do and I wish you good choies as well as luck....
2006-09-17 17:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I believe in love at first sight? I have to say no I don't. When people believe that it's love at first sight I feel like it's more of a lust sort of emotion that can develop into love. As far as your situation whatever you do wait...give yourself time, and if it's true love and the one you want to spend the rest of your life with then they will wait for you too. I don't think it's ever "wrong" to fall in love with someone but you can make the wrong choices.
2006-09-17 17:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jessye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not believe in love at first sight, it should be called lust at first sight because all u kno about them is that they have good looks and some things about there personality
it is not love cuz u have no idea wat this perosn is really like, u need to really get to kno a person before u can determine if it is love or not
u are way to young to be so serious about the whole marriage thing, u still have many years in front of u for u to explore and learn
TAKE UR TIME
2006-09-17 17:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a really thin line between real love and infatuation. You can hardley tell the difference, so no i dont believe in love at first sight. But I do believe in infatuation so deep that it might feel like love. But usually infatuation wears off and love is that thing were your partner bugs the crap out of you, but you still can't imagine being without them. The problem with "loving" so quickly is that you are still in that infatuation stage. And even though you feel as if you know everything about this person, when you move so quickly you barely give yourself time to find out who this person really is. I've been with my beau for 4 years now, and new things always arise. When we first started dating, I was so infatuated that I blinded myself from any bad qualities of him, so you dont necessarily see those qualities that bug you about that person at first. I'm not ga ga dreaming of our wedding day or writing his last name on my first name anymore, he leaves his dirty socks in my car, he's always late, forgets to call, infatuation that would be the end of it, but love is the only strength I have to with stand the power of his dirty stinky socks in my car. So my advice yeh everyone's entitled to love, but take with caution, real love needs to grow. Infatuation is a short term buzz until the real mixer comes.
2006-09-17 17:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We use the word "love" so lightly. If you really love someone, you never stop loving them. Love is ever lasting and it's mostly one-sided and painful. Love is giving and giving and giving and not expecting anything in return. Love takes years of commitment and work and Patience and perseverance.
Love at first sight? I doubt it. Lust at first sight would probably be a more accurate description. But hey, lust is good. Just don't confuse it with love.
2006-09-17 17:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 18 you get infatuated with a person easily and mistake it for love, you do change as you grow older, I remember turning 21 and my feelings were totally different to how I used to feel when younger - so wait and take it easy have fun with the guy there is no hurry and its romantic too not getting hitched so quickly - you take each other for granted when you get wed.l
2006-09-17 18:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not.....
A man drove past me one day and we stared at each other for ages,
and i got a funny feeling in my stomach.....
Then i had to have some work done on my kitchen and it was him what turned up to do it,
after a short while he ended up popping round and i would bump into him any where i went and i still couldnt keep my eyes of him,
I told a friend about it and she said that he was the one doing her kitchen as well, and said how nice he was, at that point i couldnt see him enough, and i was waiting to bump into him.
a little after that we got it together and fell in love and its been like that ever since..
and i can honestly say that was love at first sight.......
2006-09-17 17:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur heart beats faster or u get butterflies in ur stomach then its love alright! i believe in love at 1st sight but keeping love is a different thing altogether! its not wrong to fall in love so fast. its just ur heart telling u that it wants to share life with this other person. if thats wrong then hey?
2006-09-17 17:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it happens sometimes. It happened to me..We are engaged. And our relationship moved very fast. Sometimes you just go with what your heart says, ya know? Good Luck to you!
2006-09-17 17:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋